I want to be a house wife! but without the kids i love kids but i can't have them but i enjoy cleaning and cooking dinners....i was not raised this way but some how i beleive its good to take care of your man if he takes care of you..don't get me wrong i'm not sayin women belong in the kitchen and i'm not a push over very stubborn but i would like to take care of my home and have a couple dogs in lu of kids..sound funny? lol

more power to you, if this decision makes you happy. go for it

No, it does not sound funny at all. It just sounds a bit sad, and a bit lonely.

I hope at some point you find a desire to do something that motivates you to do something other than to live your life for one person. I see nothing wrong with staying at home to raise children, but to clean and cook for a man? That is not what I'd call old fashioned. I get to clean and cook dinners regularly, but I also work in a job I adore and have the ability to help make my community a safer place in which to live. My life has purpose in multiple ways, family, home, career....

good luck

well thats true! i would like to do other things and i will....kids are not in my future maybe my next life! its not all bout the man don't get me twisted lol i know they have to arms and two feet and are big boys lol but i would like to say one time he came home had a nice dinner and naked time in the tub!!! lol or shower hehe i'm a horn ball

Well, you can say "your" kids are not in your future.... but your future mate might have some and there are lots of children who need homes.

I'm relieved to hear you do not mean you want to be a "housewife" in the terms you originally stated. I can work all day, make dinner, and do whatever later. If I can do it, so can you.

with your career as a vet..im sure that just taking care of the animals that need you will be more then a full time commitment anyways,miss brenna..
but meeting a man who has children does hold great potential as well.....or when the day comes that you get married,you can always adobt a child ..with your qualitys,im sure that you'll make a great mom

not sad at all. not everyone aspires to be all they can be.they are happy with who they are.good luck girl you know you better than anyone

true thats why i want animals as kids hahaha i don't mind finding someone with kids as long as he can understand my fear of throw up lol....its horrible

believe in this miss brenna...and in no way am i makeing light of your phobia..but before i began my career as a construction worker..i had a life altering fear of hieghts..
even when i was on board of a sky-lift..safe as hell.
but even with all of it's safety barriers..i just couldn't look down.

now i can walk on the connection beems 100 feet off the ground and do a jigg..

have you ever soughtfor ways to cure this phobia...i was going to mention this to you on my last post..but i didnt want to step out of boundries

I have read lots about it there is no cure for it and its alot different then bein scared of heights cause your only scared when its an issue i live with mine everyday....its a burden a big one...its called emetophobia i looked it up and i started to cry cause i never realize how bad it was till it pointed out all the stuff i do and why.....

Feminism should be the right to make our own choices. And if that is what you want, then go for it. It shouldn't be the driving force guilting women into the idea that they have to do 5 times as much as they did in the past, they have to do everything and do it well, in the same amount of time. That just makes me angry.

this is true...i certainly see your point...my phobia was a state of mind,but yours is a state of body..i mean all fears are in the mind..but when a persons fears are conserning a bodys natural defence..such as when the system has been infected witha virus,it's natural defences will cause one to vomit..can be very upseting to one's life

and morning sickness when a woman is pregnent.

i hope that you do find a way to releave yourself of this fear somehow though..