I look at it this way. I fit the nations adverage body size (hence i put adverage). Im not a skeleton like my friends but at least i go runing/walking every morning.

Any fem who has actual tatas. I don't really care HOW skinng you are your going to have "A few extra pounds" Yes you can get rid of them but.. what would be the fun in that?

I think if you wear "average" sized clothes you can say average. If you shop in plus sizes, then you are at least a few extra pounds, if not heavyset. It's pretty simple, at least for a woman.

The problem is, women tend not to be real honest in this regard... which confuses me. The man would see your actual size once you meet and if you've lied, you've ruined it. It's more that the person lied then their actual size, and it really bothers me this happens because the few superficial ones can ruin it for the many! I used to make sure people saw me either on cam or a full body shot before meeting and vice versa. This way it was all out there and deception was not an issue.