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thanks unsure  i dont want to start another relationship with the guy in jail...honestly he's in on statatory charges and grand theft auto...so he'll be there for a while...i just want to be his friend..age doesnt matter to me but i'm still young...i'm more mature when it comes to certain things then most girls my age...but i still like to go out and have fun...the last guy i dated that was older than me wouldnt let me...i'm scared that'll happen again...
don't say that you are mature and then follow it up with "the last guy I dated wouldn't let me" those are contradictory. Seriously, take some time for yourself, and maybe even go see a couselor. I'm not trying to be nasty, I just see alot of the younger me in you. THAT SCARES ME. |
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thanks unsure i dont want to start another relationship with the guy in jail...honestly he's in on statatory charges and grand theft auto...so he'll be there for a while...i just want to be his friend..age doesnt matter to me but i'm still young...i'm more mature when it comes to certain things then most girls my age...but i still like to go out and have fun...the last guy i dated that was older than me wouldnt let me...i'm scared that'll happen again...
don't say that you are mature and then follow it up with "the last guy I dated wouldn't let me" those are contradictory. Seriously, take some time for yourself, and maybe even go see a couselor. I'm not trying to be nasty, I just see alot of the younger me in you. THAT SCARES ME. i should probelly should have put that better... when we were out together he would try and contol who i talked to and what i wore...and didnt like me going out just me and my best friend..which we've been doing for almost 11 years now... I've seen couseler and i know ur not trying to be mean or anything..i was ready for anything anyone would say...the last time i saw a couselor they didnt do much for me... and that scares me from going back...but maybe i should go back again... Im just confused..because even though i know who i am...i feel like i'm gonna miss something if i'm not seeing and talking to guys. |
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Ummmmm...sweetie....no offense here....but you have no f*cking clue what you want or who you want. That and you have a ton of insecurity. Sorry, but I can't sit back and read your posts and not say this....cause you have some issues to work out. I mean this in the most sincere way too. Lily and others suggested taking time to find you and maybe seek some counseling. I agree. Do it soon. And stay away from the damn fellons. Blast me if you choose, but people on here can be too nice. Sometimes the truth freaking hurts.
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Ok I want to take the time now to thank everyone whos given me advice on what to do...I'm gonna take some more time and think things through then make some changes....and maybe go talk to some one...but thanks for lisening well reading and giving me ur advice..manny manny thanks.....
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because even though i know who i am...i feel like i'm gonna miss something if i'm not seeing and talking to guys. Go to as many councelors as it takes.......... |
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Honestly thinking about it... i think i'm attracted to the felons cuz of the whole Reformed bad boy image they put out...and i know i dont need them..but at the same time cuz they've done time they know exactly what to say to make u trust them...I dont need a man I know who i am and now i have a firm grip on me...i just feel like if i stop seeing guys i'm gonna miss something....but thanks for the advice Lily
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Honestly thinking about it... i think i'm attracted to the felons cuz of the whole Reformed bad boy image they put out...and i know i dont need them..but at the same time cuz they've done time they know exactly what to say to make u trust them...I dont need a man I know who i am and now i have a firm grip on me...i just feel like if i stop seeing guys i'm gonna miss something....but thanks for the advice Lily
lol that makes me laugh  
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Honestly thinking about it... i think i'm attracted to the felons cuz of the whole Reformed bad boy image they put out...and i know i dont need them..but at the same time cuz they've done time they know exactly what to say to make u trust them...I dont need a man I know who i am and now i have a firm grip on me...i just feel like if i stop seeing guys i'm gonna miss something....but thanks for the advice Lily
lol that makes me laugh
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Here is some advice: Guy 1: Forget him. No future being with a convict. Guy 2: Forget him too. He is not interested. If he does not bother to contact you just to see how you are doing then he is not worth your time. Guy 3: Age is just a number. If things are ok so far then it's worth a shot. Good luck!! agreed. but FIRST ... spend some time with YOU.
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Okay. I give up with you chics. I mean...seriously. It's like alot of people, male and female, just can't make up there own freaking minds nowadays. You have to go through family and friends, make them give there opinion, tally the votes, and whatever the outcome is, that is your decision. Sorry...that is weak. I agree. If I am connected to a guy, I've learned not to ask anyone else what they think. I think for myself. Period. I don't take other people shopping with me anymore either. I KNOW what I like .. and I buy it. End of story. Ah, to be sure of life. 
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Just enjoy being you for awhile.
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