Why does being alone hurt so much? Sometimes, you have a good thing and for no apparent reason, it's stripped from you. You try to move on, but good girls are hard to find. I've been trying my best, and run into a few that were ok. I'm not even looking for love anymore, I've given up on it. How hard can it possibly be to find a half way intelligent woman to lean on? Someone who can help mend my heart back to the way it was.

truly sorry for your heartache and hope you find that special one to help you thru it all

Because your trying so hard.
Just chill, get yourself a drink and relax.
Good things come to those who wait.

Just go by my personal motto, which just happens to be two words long
"One day"

idk its hard for me 2

i truly believe that the word heart break explains it completely. its like theres just this pain right in your heart and you can't get rid of it. I'm so sorry you feel this way, when it happened to me i just remember thinking "i wish that i could go to the doctor and they could mend my heart". I'm sure you'll find someone special to help you through this.

You need to get over the "needing" part and be happy with yourself..........who wants to be with someone who is a bleeding heart???? Fake it till ya make it!!

Your first step brother....BELIEVE IN YOURSELF!! You have to make yourself happy first....before you can make someone else happy.... I go by this all of the time.... It works. Also, don't try so hard, it WILL find you eventually. Take your time and take it slow....it'll work out for you and GOOD LUCK!!

madamx.....I LOVE your pic!!! I have that movie and I LOVE THE S**T out of it!!!! Charlie and Peter.....THE FEARLESS VAMPIRE KILLERS!!

i know how hard it is bro. i think that weve all been there or are at the same point. there are some really intelligent and cool down to earth girls on here. and who knows. you might just fall inlove with one. dont keep your hopes down.

i dont look.. i had enough hart ache in my life to last 5 life times. if it happens it happens .. i dont force and i dont rush it..

madam

I have a friend that can't handle being alone so she jumps into one bad situation after another. Sometimes being alone can be a blessing. Time to learn about yourself, don't let what you don't have destroy you. You will get what you want eventually. Focus on yourself for awhile, you'll be better for it.

u know i think people who have broken hearts should get together because we know how it feels

devildog, you rock! you are always there with a kind word to ease the soul! your inner strength is tremendous. when you need a friend....

Only you can heal yourself. Like attracts like.

Face your losses, as painful as they may be and grieve them well. Give yourself time to resolve your feelings over lost loved ones and seek professional help if talking to friends about it is not enough.

Get back to the things you used to love to do before your relationship. Find yourself again.

You'll see that in time, you will begin to attract healthier and more available partners.

Be well.

Everyone knows how it feels......

yes yes they do...

I can understand your feelings. However unlike everyone else I'm not going to tell you to not give up. I can tell you after awhile its not so bad. You learn to accept it. sooner or later you stop smiling as much, you start to loose your humor, you drown yourself in work, and you go on. Shortly after that you'll start looking at the chatrooms and forums thinking that there still might be hope and for the most part your ignored but you still keep trying to no avail. After awhile you'll just quit. And the sad thing is that everyone will tell you not to give up but noone willl try or wants to really give you the chance to get to know you.

I know, I'm at that point now. The good thing is when I'm gone I know that noone will care much less relize that I'm no longer there, and I'm o.k. with that now. It just lets me know that I won't leave anyone behind that needs me or will miss me.

I know this will most likely be ignored and maybe it should, Its just the ramblings of someone that has been jaded and calased byone a point of return. Be it because I can't or I won't I haven't figured that out yet.

I'm sure this will not be well recieved, but it is how I feel about it, so let the hate begin as it always does.

i am truly sorry you feel this way. thats so sad. i'm sure there are some people in your life who love you and care for you.

Wow a variety of different responses some are good, some(in my opinion are not). I do understand where your at, i'm there right now. I got back from a 6 month deployment of my wife of almost four years wanted out of our marriage it sucks. I really meant it when i said i wanted to spend the rest of my life with her. The feeling was almost unbearable at first and i was crying myself to sleep almost every night and then something happened. Let me share with you the story. I have two little neighbor girls that live next door to me, one's 11 and one is 6 their dad is in jail right now but they were starving for male attention. Well i know their grandma and i was over visiting her when the little girls asked if i would go outside and play with them. So i did. I had more fun with those kids than i have had in my last 4 years of marriage and something hit me....I don't need a woman to make me happy. Seeing those kids having so much fun in the littlest things really put things in perspective for me. If they can get that much joy out of simple things than why can't i? Granted their our times when it is still going to hurt, but i suggest surronding yourself by family and friends give it time to heal...you don't want to drag emotional baggage into the next relationship. Also when you do this something amazing happens...you start to become truly happy...and people our attracted to happy people normally. You become more for lack of a better term marketable. Hope this helps Isaac