I got sorta disapponted about something. Me and a local guy on here had been chatting for awhile, hit it off real well and had made plans to meet and then something came up(it was legit..np) and planned to reschedule and then he just stopped responding and was taken off my friends list just like that, i tried to get an explanation, but to know avail, no response. I thought it was very rude

(almost) the same happened to me sept we spent a lot of time on the phone then after the date poof WTF
come on i'm a big gril if you dont want me say so so i'm not wasteing my f***ing time

What an A**hole! screw that...

dont worry it happened 2 me 2. and i just was like whatever and moved on. and the guy called my house after i told him 2 get lost.

Sorry to hear that..people never seem to grow up

as much as i dont want to belive this it is true

yeah, it's just aggravating

it seems to be contagious

I hear ya... I hear Ya...

Want one of these?

Throw it in their direction!

how do you know it was a legit reason? Some people are good at making lies sound truthful!

too many players...just got to keep your eyes open and not take things too much to heart.

hey i set a record this week i had it happen to me and i got rid of one today all she wanted was money by by baby

That sux....I'm sorry that happened to you. It shouldn't happen to anyone.... You have to be careful on these sites. Alot of heartbreakers on here and other sites. Again, that was bad and as for me being of the male race, I appologize on his behalf for this s**t that happened to you.

i just dont understand whats wrong with people they say they want some one to love but then they have no prolbem poping out of peopls lives like they dont matter it makes no sence and it's chaseing your tail

Sounds like his wife or gf found out.......or maybe even his mom!!

So you didn't send the check?

Amazing how fast a person can semi-disappear so damn fast huh? Without a reason or just a tiny little explanation. Just never understood how you spend time chatting, then you decide to meet, and then poof...............magic act......they are gone.

He has met someone else he is into, or, like Gypsy said, Wif or GF, or mom found out. Could be any of these. But, at least he is gone and now you can move on. But, I am willing to bet he will contact you within the next couple of months to see if there is still any interest. Why? I dunno....just seems like most people who do this sort of thing tend to try to make contact with the one the left.

Hey people, first post-

I went through this kind of crap recently at another dating site, the name of which I won't mention here.

Long story short-
We chatted... we went on a date... and we agreed on a second date. Or that's at least what I thought...

Then she decides to go in-communicado on me... she'd agree to this second date, only to flake out on me. At first she claimed she had issues to deal with as a reason for her flakiness. And this would be fine... if she didn't continue with her flakiness, that is. She'd plan a "movie date", then flake. Then she wouldn't reply for a week. Then she'd reschedule the "movie date". Then she'd flake again. Rinse and repeat.

I even mentioned to her at one point that she should just tell me if she wasn't interested in going out, as her pulling her start-and-stop routine was getting old.

After a couple more rounds with her apparent indecision (lasting the better part of two weeks), she THEN decides to "cut bait" and cut me loose, if you will.

Then one of her online buddies called me a "terrorist", which added a whole other dimension to the snafu.

Needless to say, if the other person flakes out on you, drop them like a hot potato. It's rude, it's inconsiderate, and (most of all) it's disrespectful. And since respect is a MAJOR part of whether or not a budding relationship will work, I'd say this is some important stuff.

i feel foe everyone i here. been there... its frustrating, If they can't be honest in here, what more in real life... oh well