I've recently said I'm still in love with him and want to be with him....he says he doesn't want a relationship right now he's not ready for one. He says he wants to still see me and sleep with me because he still likes me and cares about me etc.

So I've agreed at this point to continue this however the other night I asked him if I could come over and he asks why. I said "same as usual I want sex" he says ok then asks "is sex all we are now?" and I say "well I'm not sure how I feel. After our discussion I'll see how I feel after tonight."

Then he says "well if it's only about sex then I don't want to see but if it's you want to see me for more like feelings and emotions then ok come over."

Also, when i previously mentioned to him that i needed some space he became a bit angry towards me asking me if that meant i wanted to start seeing other people and i told him no it wasn't and he said to me that if i have my space he can't promise me that he'll be around when i'm done having my space???

So any insight into this guy's mind? im very confused?

Ok........so he wants sex but not a relationship......but when you want him for just sex its NOT ok??????????

Ok what is wrong with this picture?????

Here is my advice.......get rid of Mr.I dont wanna relationship and get someone who does......

i say **** him not literally though meanin kiss his ass aside and find someone better, he is just playin head games with you

How old is your playa???

dump him. if he can't be to you what you need, then why would you hurt yourself like that?

Dude, I can't sleep. Stupidity and obliviousness is keeping me up. I can't help but wonder why woman put themselves in such peculiar situations. Stop sticking your ass out in the air for someone who only wants to play in the mud at the bottom of the mountain instead of climbing everest like he should.

Have more respect for yourself and REALIZE when your being F*CKED. No pun intended.

all depends how long you been dating, if it was series, and what not really enough deatils

Ugh! I'm just over a 5 yr. relationship that sounds very similar to what you are going through. I think you are dealing with a person who doesn't even know what HE wants. Sometimes I thought that he really didn't want me but he didn't want anyone else to have me either. In the end I don't think it was that. In my case this guy, whom I loved and who I knew loved me on some level was just too fearful to make the kind of committment that comes from loving a person. He struggled between having his all important freedom and satisfying his heart. In the end I made the decision for him. I'm too old to play with someone who does not have the guts (and it does take guts) to love and be loved. Sadly he (and many people) didn't realize that good love gives much more freedom then it takes away.

Good luck to you.

relationships are a bunch of up and down give and take.. instead of considering his feelings when he gives you a bull**** pitty party- take the easy way out when you are ready and let him deal with his own emotions.. boys boys boys...

OH PLEASE.... He wasn't affraid, he was BORED and TIRED of you NAGGING him all the time. It's a mutual thing honey, can't just blame the guy. I don't see you owning up to SQUAT in that lengthy paragraph. It takes TWO to TANGO... ::dances::

ahhaha timmy.. so true. Although guys tend to think they are drama free when women end up having todeal with a lot of boy drama. especially when it comes to friends with benefits. Guys always end up falling back in love and not owning up to their feelings.. we just need to get filled in! -or let us go

easy peasy

Here, let me make it a fair battle... " Girls girls girls"... "I want poster boy, I am full of emotions and no one has sponges surgically attached to there ass to soak up all of my BS." -- "Men suck, relationships suck, boys boys boys, pitty party, are there any good men left out there? "

Maybe you arent looking in the right place and MAYBE, just MAYBE, someone got sick and tired of you pissing them off all the time with your snooty attitude and bowl of bon bons.

Sorry if I offend anyone, this is just a one sided argument and I'm putting some leverage on the situtation!

What the **** kind of guys have you been dating? I've been single my entire life and I just think your lookin in the wrong places baby gurl. I'm not trying to argue, but seriously, maybe your looking too hard, too much, or expecting way too much effort from both sides.

I see a relationship as simple and easy. You spend your life with each other, share experiences and possesions, and you make babies and enjoy the rest of your existence on this planet with each other. I'm not out actively looking for the right girl, I know I'll find her in my travels some day!

Life's too short to date ugly men.............














AND IDIOTS!!!

You should choose wisely then!

amen sista...amen...

But Im attracted to midgets......is this wrong???

Seems he's playing control games with you. Try ignoring him for awhile and Ill bet he'll change his tune

and amish people fascinate me..........no idea why?!!!

Whoa midgets? I'd suggest a step stool and a sex toy for comparison :D