Topic: Say a prayer and have a drink
BetterDazes's photo
Mon 01/28/08 05:16 PM
Edited by BetterDazes on Mon 01/28/08 05:23 PM
FOR ME!

Tomorrow I go to court for the second time in this divorce thing!
The first time was just to set up child support and spousal support temporarily, and his sh** of an attorney ran me into the ground and to tears, and I WASN'T THE ONE WHO CHEATED! So this time I am armed with drugs, thanks to my Doc (yup I will never cry again) and ready for battle. At first I didn't want this, but now that I know ALL the terrible turth (God the internet is a wonderful source of info ya know) I wouldn't take that F**KER back if he was the only man on Earth. Ahhh I feel better now. So any words of wisdom from divorce pros here?

BetterDazes's photo
Mon 01/28/08 05:20 PM
Edited by BetterDazes on Mon 01/28/08 05:20 PM
ok this doesn't look good for me, guess no advice here...yikes! =(

Twitch's photo
Mon 01/28/08 05:22 PM
Sorry you're going through this. I wish you much luck tomorrow. Stay strong and don't give him the satisfaction or stupe to his level. Be strong for yourself and your child.flowerforyou

BetterDazes's photo
Mon 01/28/08 05:25 PM
I'll try:heart:

jules49's photo
Mon 01/28/08 05:35 PM
Good luck and be smart about showing your emotions. Just stay polite be be prepared for anything. Dont settle for crap! I know a lot of woman who loose everything when there husbands cheated cause they were too upset to fight. Save the emotions for later and fight to the death. I hope your State favors the mom.

BetterDazes's photo
Mon 01/28/08 05:36 PM

Good luck and be smart about showing your emotions. Just stay polite be be prepared for anything. Dont settle for crap! I know a lot of woman who loose everything when there husbands cheated cause they were too upset to fight. Save the emotions for later and fight to the death. I hope your State favors the mom.


Oh it does favor the mom, I just can't stand to be in the same room as him ya know. It turns my stomach! sigh!

willy_cents's photo
Mon 01/28/08 05:37 PM

Good luck and be smart about showing your emotions. Just stay polite be be prepared for anything. Dont settle for crap! I know a lot of woman who loose everything when there husbands cheated cause they were too upset to fight. Save the emotions for later and fight to the death. I hope your State favors the mom.


I hope your state favors the best interests of the children..'cause they are the ones who suffer most in a divorce

jules49's photo
Mon 01/28/08 05:40 PM
play it cool and if he bring a support group then look right through them. Their only there to make you break. You also dont want the judge see you with an negitive behavior. And donr worry your ex will get his krama.

longshot's photo
Mon 01/28/08 05:42 PM
beenthere done that 3 times Just keep telling yourself he lost a lot more than you did.Keep your cool and rememeber[illigitimi non corborindium]

MicheleNC's photo
Mon 01/28/08 05:46 PM
Be strong. Will send happy shiny thoughts your way.

Email me if you need an ear or shoulder. Been there, done that, got the t-shirt and threw up all over it.

Just try to rest tonight and not think.

Hugs, M

Jim519's photo
Mon 01/28/08 06:05 PM
Stay true to yourself!

1956CLEO's photo
Mon 01/28/08 06:14 PM

play it cool and if he bring a support group then look right through them. Their only there to make you break. You also dont want the judge see you with an negitive behavior. And donr worry your ex will get his krama.


Never let 'em see you sweat (or see negativity)! Be strong you're in my prayers! flowerforyou


jules49's photo
Mon 01/28/08 06:15 PM
you can always email me as well. I actually did my own divorce and it went really. I was a legal assistant at the time. And you can ask jim519, we talk about this stuff all the time.

unsure's photo
Mon 01/28/08 06:20 PM
Just be polite the whole time, hold your temper and never let them see you cry. The number one thing to remember is the children!!
If he bothers you to look at him..don't even look his way. BUT never give him the satisfaction to let him know how much he has disrupted your life. Look your best, put on a smile and take a deep breath.
You are in my thoughts and my prayers!!
Stay safe, happy and healthy!
Unsure flowerforyou

EveningKiss's photo
Mon 01/28/08 06:22 PM

FOR ME!

Tomorrow I go to court for the second time in this divorce thing!
The first time was just to set up child support and spousal support temporarily, and his sh** of an attorney ran me into the ground and to tears, and I WASN'T THE ONE WHO CHEATED! So this time I am armed with drugs, thanks to my Doc (yup I will never cry again) and ready for battle. At first I didn't want this, but now that I know ALL the terrible turth (God the internet is a wonderful source of info ya know) I wouldn't take that F**KER back if he was the only man on Earth. Ahhh I feel better now. So any words of wisdom from divorce pros here?


Oh yay. I'll be at court tomarrow as well but only to testify on behalf of a friend. Im goig to have me a drink tonight and then relax.

jules49's photo
Tue 01/29/08 05:33 PM

FOR ME!
so how did it go?

Tomorrow I go to court for the second time in this divorce thing!
The first time was just to set up child support and spousal support temporarily, and his sh** of an attorney ran me into the ground and to tears, and I WASN'T THE ONE WHO CHEATED! So this time I am armed with drugs, thanks to my Doc (yup I will never cry again) and ready for battle. At first I didn't want this, but now that I know ALL the terrible turth (God the internet is a wonderful source of info ya know) I wouldn't take that F**KER back if he was the only man on Earth. Ahhh I feel better now. So any words of wisdom from divorce pros here?

BetterDazes's photo
Tue 01/29/08 06:51 PM
Well it was an utter waste of my time Jules. All we did was set another date for arbitration and a date for discovery and a date for trial if need be. I feel like I had wasted a good drug on an easy morning lol. Thanks for asking! =)