To answer your question jtitol...

There isn't any "way" to write to anyone on these sites other than simple decency rules. Write something personal and particular to that individual. Ask questions that can give them something to respond to. Don't use mass emailings or blanket statements - "Ur HOT, rite me K?" Yes women get those all the time along with every other perverted bit of weirdness you can imagine.

And THAT is the main reason you're not getting replies. Women are inundated with email on these sites and some of the stuff they get is downright scary. Many, if not most women just "shut down" after a couple days and only respond to emails from guys they've already viewed and were interested in or someone with something REALLY unique to say.

It's a crap shoot. You may be the perfect match for the gal you're writing to but six hundred forty eight other guys before you have soured the whole experience for her.

Nothing for you to do but shrug and write to someone else. Here's hoping she's newer and not jaded yet.

NO JADED PLEZ

The ones that don't bother answering are missing out.

Just be you, sends notes & always answer even if your not interested. Just invite them to come meet other people in here.

When I started deleting my who's viewed me list I sent out a ton of notes Inviting them here & only a few responded.
Those few did start posting, that's what counts.

I did have one guy answer with "WHAT DO YOU WANT?"
eeeck! I told him nothing from you! I was just being nice!
(I left off the d*ckhead part)

Do WE get Jaded in time??

Well, after checking out your profile I think I can say that there is only one picture of people and you could be one of two people.... and your profile is BLANK. I do not bother to reply to blank profiles... take the time to fill it in.

no camera
and i expected ppl who r interested to email

DING! DING! DING! DING! DING! DING! DING!

WE HAVE A WINNER!


Good GRIEF jtitol!!! What the heck do you expect?? You have to SAY something for anyone to respond.

If I get a letter from someone with NO profile (and that goofy imitation banner thing is NOT a profile) I'm thinking "You're too lazy or dumb or plain boring to write ANYthing at all about yourself? Why on God's green earth would I write to YOU?"





Well folks that wraps up this episode of "Things not to do on internet dating sites". Please join us next time when we will discuss the finer points of finding foreign spouses.

And in what, exactly, would people find interest in? A photo of world flags? A photo of a mother and her two sons? Cetainly nothing about you, since you wrote nothing.

Oh, borrow a buddy's phone, take some pics, there you go.

im not going to kiss ass any1s
just so do ppl like me either u like me or hate me as simple that
not into writing speeches

THATS THE FLAG OF MY COUNTRY "NICARAGUA"
ware the foreign spouses

hey jtitol can I have some chzz w/all ur whinning

whos whinning just speaking

This thread has pooped me out

This is the song that never ends,
It just goes on and on my friends,
Some people started singing it, not knowing what it was,
And they'll continue singing it forever just because—

How do aproach people who don't post?

Ahhhh very carefully!

Then tell them to join us!

Just reading this made me want to post and I'm not a poster!!!! lol