I'm ugly, Aint I?

No, you are not ugly. That is not a nice thing to call yourself. You should take some regular pictures with you smiling and that might help your self confidence!

not at all who pierced ur tingue though it's a little to far front women r supposed to have it back farther

Ha, I got it done when I was 19 for $30 from a friend. I like it.

not ugly at all. have some confidence.

well as long as u like it

Honestly?

Doesn't matter. I haven't met a single person in my life who couldn't be made 100 times more attractive just by some good clothes, a good hairstyle, keeping their hair and skin clean and healthy, and improving their posture and body language.

Thank you livelife68, and the_don, is that some kinda put down.

ok marsneversleeps, what can I do to improve myself?

Well, if you don't know anything about fashion, study it. Not a lot, just enough to know how to put together some outfits that looks good on you, and that're current. Doesn't have to be expensive either; I shop at Wal-Mart, Kohl's and Target mostly.

Hairstyle is easy too: most cheap mall/strip center barbers will know enough to recommend a pretty good hairstyle that compliments you. If you don't get quite what you're looking for the first time around, well hair grows. ;) Just grow it out and, when it's time for a trim, go somewhere else and see what you get.

For skin and hair, just do the normal stuff. Wash your face every day and your hair at least three times a week; preferably every other day if you can manage it. Use both shampoo and conditioner, or a 2-in-1 if you prefer, that's suited to your particular kind of hair. Brushing teeth is important too. No one likes a morning-breath, eh? :p Do what your dentist says: every morning after breakfast and every night before bed.

If you don't already, learn what makeup works for you. Less is more: most girls look way better with only minimal makeup. If you go for the supermodel look, you're going to end up looking plastic. Natural is in.

Finally, for posture and body language, keep your eyes open. Observe people, especially girls, who *radiate* confidence, success and beauty. Watch how they move, how fast or slow they move, how they stand, watch their eyes and observe the way they shift their focus from one thing to the next. Movies are especially good for this. Then start emulating that. The truth is "body follows mind, mind follows body." If you work to convince yourself that you're confident, attractive and successful, you're body will adjust itself accordingly. And if you move as though you're confident, attractive and successful, your mind will fall in line as well. So work on both!

I study this stuff as a hobby; I could go on for hours. Feel free to email me if you want some more detail. :)