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I hate the cruel way they have to say things...like whenever u ask a girl out and she says.........'' I cant, or... ilike u as a friend...or blah blah blah...its better to say the truth ...other than that...everything is alright with all beauties I get the friends speech all the time from guys I whole heartedly agree! What's up with "i'd rather be friends" after you have actually gone out- lilke dated. Men actually think that after they break up with a girl that they can be friends right away. excuse me. |
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Edited by
yvory
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Sun 01/27/08 11:34 PM
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i really dont like the really jealous women women are not jealous unless there is a reason to be. :) My ex wife was extremely jealous, and I was the polar opposite (i can be friends with anyone and have no attraction to them) I wasn't the flirty friendly or anything like that, didn't chat with women on the net, call them or have them call me, just work colleagues. She didn't trust me and I never cheated, I trusted her and well... 800 miles away committing bigamy, and having a baby next month! Yea... they have to have a reason! Psychos. sure and her reason is: she didn't trust you. she has no trust to start with. and you can insert the "it's not you, it's me" speech. |
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I hate the cruel way they have to say things...like whenever u ask a girl out and she says.........'' I cant, or... ilike u as a friend...or blah blah blah...its better to say the truth ...other than that...everything is alright with all beauties I get the friends speech all the time from guys but it's most common on girls..dont ya think I am willing to bet it is done equally between the two genders. I have never said it to anyone. Nor have any of my friends. |
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well I do know is not easy comming back as friends after you've gone around ..but what if the relationship ...just have to end...like me for instance....i just broke up with my girlfriend
 for the fact ..that im leaving to the army ...and im not gonna see her in a long time...so ...i think it would not be nice of my part letting her waiting for me for years
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i see your point Yvory. But the speech I got was "It's been over for along time Andy" Lmao... We just got back on vacation!
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well I do know is not easy comming back as friends after you've gone around ..but what if the relationship ...just have to end...like me for instance....i just broke up with my girlfriend for the fact ..that im leaving to the army ...and im not gonna see her in a long time...so ...i think it would not be nice of my part letting her waiting for me for years
well you have a good reason but what about for the fellas that couldn't even think of a single reason? |
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well I do know is not easy comming back as friends after you've gone around ..but what if the relationship ...just have to end...like me for instance....i just broke up with my girlfriend for the fact ..that im leaving to the army ...and im not gonna see her in a long time...so ...i think it would not be nice of my part letting her waiting for me for years
well you have a good reason but what about for the fellas that couldn't even think of a single reason? I get ur point ..... and i do know is not easy..but if u dont end up bad ..i guess u can stil be friends...other wise...screw the girl or the guy ..depending on the situation |
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i see your point Yvory. But the speech I got was "It's been over for along time Andy" Lmao... We just got back on vacation! well love is blind like you said. when we're in love we tend to see the "positive" things about the person we love and brush off their flaws... flaws that could turn out to be something we don't want to live with. |
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well I do know is not easy comming back as friends after you've gone around ..but what if the relationship ...just have to end...like me for instance....i just broke up with my girlfriend for the fact ..that im leaving to the army ...and im not gonna see her in a long time...so ...i think it would not be nice of my part letting her waiting for me for years
You still get R&R time, plus if you have a strong relationship you can get engaged and she can live with you. (thats not for everyone though) Besides you 2 didn't end on a sour note who says you 2 cant pick it back up later? |
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well I do know is not easy comming back as friends after you've gone around ..but what if the relationship ...just have to end...like me for instance....i just broke up with my girlfriend for the fact ..that im leaving to the army ...and im not gonna see her in a long time...so ...i think it would not be nice of my part letting her waiting for me for years
You still get R&R time, plus if you have a strong relationship you can get engaged and she can live with you. (thats not for everyone though) Besides you 2 didn't end on a sour note who says you 2 cant pick it back up later? I hope it works that way man...thanx for the advise |
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well I do know is not easy comming back as friends after you've gone around ..but what if the relationship ...just have to end...like me for instance....i just broke up with my girlfriend for the fact ..that im leaving to the army ...and im not gonna see her in a long time...so ...i think it would not be nice of my part letting her waiting for me for years
well you have a good reason but what about for the fellas that couldn't even think of a single reason? I get ur point ..... and i do know is not easy..but if u dont end up bad ..i guess u can stil be friends...other wise...screw the girl or the guy ..depending on the situation that's true, i guess you're right. maybe i'm just bitter as hell because the guys I dated used "id just want us to be friends" and break up with me. it's like they have a template, a format to use to break up and make themselves look less of an asshole. |
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i really dont like the really jealous women women are not jealous unless there is a reason to be. :) Yeah, it's our instinct that's telling us there's another chick in the mix. woah now you ladies must be getting mixed signals a lot because when im with a woman i stay faithful 100% yet i've been with some really jealous women |
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i really dont like the really jealous women women are not jealous unless there is a reason to be. :) Yeah, it's our instinct that's telling us there's another chick in the mix. woah now you ladies must be getting mixed signals a lot because when im with a woman i stay faithful 100% yet i've been with some really jealous women women are very territorial and protective and that could sometimes be mistaken for jealousy. |
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Yvory, who in their right damn mind would leave you?
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I was JUST ASKING THE SAME QUESTION...TO MYSELF...I DONT KNOW WHO WAS THE DUMMIE TO LEAVE U YVORI ....BUT WHO EVER WAS IT...IT'S A DUMBHEAD
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Yvory, who in their right damn mind would leave you? i probably dated the 30% men and 70% boys. who knows... haha |
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I was JUST ASKING THE SAME QUESTION...TO MYSELF...I DONT KNOW WHO WAS THE DUMMIE TO LEAVE U YVORI ....BUT WHO EVER WAS IT...IT'S A DUMBHEAD hahaha yeah well the last person that i dated asked me if he was an asshole or a jerk for leaving and I told him straight up that he was both. i think i could be intimidating sometimes and i'm very vocal about what i want and need and i think that scares the men away. |
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you guys need to get a room!!!
 
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I was JUST ASKING THE SAME QUESTION...TO MYSELF...I DONT KNOW WHO WAS THE DUMMIE TO LEAVE U YVORI ....BUT WHO EVER WAS IT...IT'S A DUMBHEAD hahaha yeah well the last person that i dated asked me if he was an asshole or a jerk for leaving and I told him straight up that he was both. i think i could be intimidating sometimes and i'm very vocal about what i want and need and i think that scares the men away.  ...ACTUALLY U DONT SCARE OFF THE GUYS...U JUST GOT THE ADMIRATION OF ONE RIGHT HERE....THERES NOT MUCH GIRLS LIKE U ...U ARE MATURE THATS WHY...AND U DO KNOW WHAT U WANT
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