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Topic: relationships that last?
deltasissy's photo
Sun 01/27/08 03:24 PM
you're 18

you gotta be kidding right?

you're a doll but why in the world would u want to settle down right now?

so many people jump into life too quickly

just enjoy your youth flowerforyou

xander29's photo
Sun 01/27/08 03:25 PM
actually im about to turn 19 and serve in the marines... I'm old enough to give my life for my country but not old enough to find a meaning relationship? thanks...

Brenda_Darling's photo
Sun 01/27/08 03:26 PM
most of the time relationships dont last because of a few factors...in my experince....
1) trust...u need to trust eachother and make sure they know that..even if ur working on trusting them more...
2)personalitys- oppsites atrract yeah but more often then not if personalitys arent some what the same it wont work...
3)stages of life- if ur in diffrent places in ur lifes it wont work
4)maturaty levels- if one of u is more mature than the other it could work but most of the time it doesnt
5)goals- if you both have diffent goals.

those are just some reasons why relationship dont really last...or at least in my experence...its not always the case though...

deltasissy's photo
Sun 01/27/08 03:27 PM
see lots of people who rush into things at such an early age

xander29's photo
Sun 01/27/08 03:28 PM

most of the time relationships dont last because of a few factors...in my experince....
1) trust...u need to trust eachother and make sure they know that..even if ur working on trusting them more...
2)personalitys- oppsites atrract yeah but more often then not if personalitys arent some what the same it wont work...
3)stages of life- if ur in diffrent places in ur lifes it wont work
4)maturaty levels- if one of u is more mature than the other it could work but most of the time it doesnt
5)goals- if you both have diffent goals.

those are just some reasons why relationship dont really last...or at least in my experence...its not always the case though...



perhaps the source of my problems is #4 and #5

Brenda_Darling's photo
Sun 01/27/08 03:30 PM
it could be...thats alot of peoples problems

oceangirl2005's photo
Sun 01/27/08 03:31 PM
Yeah, girls can definitely go psycho sometimes. We know you guys hate it, but we seen to do it anyway. What age of girls do you usually go after?

oceangirl2005's photo
Sun 01/27/08 03:32 PM
Ouch! Just because you're 18 doesn't mean you're not mature enough to have a meaningful relationship! I hate it when people make comments about "oh you're so young."

Brenda_Darling's photo
Sun 01/27/08 03:35 PM
some people say that age is a factor but i really dont think that..because it isnt the age that defines you its ur maturety level and where u focus ur energys...aka ur goals in life

xander29's photo
Sun 01/27/08 03:38 PM
i dont think age is a factor, but to answer your question more precisley I won't date anyone over the age of 26, the girl i spoke of earlier that is going to bootcamp is 25

Brenda_Darling's photo
Sun 01/27/08 03:44 PM
I guess all i can say is be happy in ur life as it is now..( not that u arent, i wouldnt know) take things one day at a time...life is too short to be stressing over things like why things dont work out...take it as it comes and learn from each relationship that happens and hope things turn out diffrent...thats what i'm doing cuz i'm having the same problem

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