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POLITENESS ..........Has this word disappeared from both the UK and US dictionary. Or is it that the majority of females don't understand the meaning of the word !
I have lost count of the number of letters that I have wrote to females on this and other sites and have had no reply whatsoever ! OK so I know that I am not every womans dream of what they look for in a man but I feel if someone takes the time to write a polite letter at least he deserves a short reply even if its just to say thank you but you are just not my type, I am sure I am not on my own thinking this and many others will feel as I do. Thanks for reading. |
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maybe they get to many to respond to?
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maybe they get to many to respond to? I undestand what your saying, I have never internet dated, but ya gotta kinda expect every type of person online . I think |
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They may be exasperated with constant E-mails from freaks that they stopped caring about all of them together.
I get the same thing, most of the girls I message don't reply, I just don't let it bother me. |
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and it works both ways
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Could be the problem to many men and only a few females But what is a female without manners !
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Sorry maybe it is...But I can only give a mans account !
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yep true ..i guess sometimes it happens but try not to let it bother me
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Don't sweat it.I can't thik of what they would have to say Say that would want to know anyway.If they can't even Drop a quik line back.
Just enjoy.and have fun.  
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I do my best to reply to all but sometimes it just too much and not enough time-not intending to hurt nobodies feelings....that's just the way it is sometimes-we all have a busy life now days!!!
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common courtesy to take a min and say ty not interested.
or get ur hands wrapped around the keyboard setting it onfire because is so hot to catch. |
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Don't sweat it.I can't thik of what they would have to say Say that would want to know anyway.If they can't even Drop a quik line back. Just enjoy.and have fun.
Well it don't bother me to much ! Just thinking if I post this it may make some of these people (both man an woman) who don't give a reply to anyone, Just think a little. |
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Don't sweat it.I can't thik of what they would have to say Say that would want to know anyway.If they can't even Drop a quik line back. Just enjoy.and have fun.
Well it don't bother me to much ! Just thinking if I post this it may make some of these people (both man an woman) who don't give a reply to anyone, Just think a little. I reply to all emails sent my way.I at least like to let them know i received it.If we talk any further,thats great.if not? thats fine too.Ya just never know.
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my sister and i both send a ty when we make a thread and somebody goes to our profiles. very few emails.
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POLITENESS ..........Has this word disappeared from both the UK and US dictionary. Or is it that the majority of females don't understand the meaning of the word ! I have lost count of the number of letters that I have wrote to females on this and other sites and have had no reply whatsoever ! OK so I know that I am not every womans dream of what they look for in a man but I feel if someone takes the time to write a polite letter at least he deserves a short reply even if its just to say thank you but you are just not my type, I am sure I am not on my own thinking this and many others will feel as I do. Thanks for reading. i agree with you, manners costs nothing and it only takes a few minutes to reply even if its a dear john letter!! ive had it done to me a couple of times too its very rude.i always reply straight away if not when i get time but never ignore unless its a pervy one!! lol but i have to say men are just as bad! |
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my sister and i both send a ty when we make a thread and somebody goes to our profiles. very few emails. . I think everyone is afaid to email first.I very rarely email first.But i must say.It's alot like real life.So many would not be alone if they would just make the first move.And not be afraid.Whats the worst that could happen? I think that i will just wait for that someone to get up the courge to email.I am still back in the days where,Men should at least do that much. :smile.
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my personal philosophy is that it doesn't matter what you say (especially over the internet), it only matters what you do. If you make someone feel good about you, your outlook, your values, or themselves, they'll seek that out again to get more of of it...
good luck brother, hope you find a good'n 
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I can count on one hand the times I have made a first approach on a social networking site in the 4 years I've been on these sites. When I have, I usually comment on something they wrote in their profile or in a forum... Which I am sure stands more of a chance of response then a canned statement about their appearance.
I know I probably receive a fraction of the amount of mail an average woman receives on this site..and sometimes I can overlook responding. So I wouldn't take it too personally if I was overlooked as well. These days.. It would seem that much of the mail I receive is from folks who do not even read my profile at all.. otherwise they would know I am preoccupied with a particular young woman's attention. This can often lead to the question ~ Why should I bother to take the time to respond to a person that obviously did not take the time to read my profile in the first place? |
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I can count on one hand the times I have made a first approach on a social networking site in the 4 years I've been on these sites. When I have, I usually comment on something they wrote in their profile or in a forum... Which I am sure stands more of a chance of response then a canned statement about their appearance. I know I probably receive a fraction of the amount of mail an average woman receives on this site..and sometimes I can overlook responding. So I wouldn't take it too personally if I was overlooked as well. These days.. It would seem that much of the mail I receive is from folks who do not even read my profile at all.. otherwise they would know I am preoccupied with a particular young woman's attention. This can often lead to the question ~ Why should I bother to take the time to respond to a person that obviously did not take the time to read my profile in the first place? well said, cheers 
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I can overlook responding. So I wouldn't take it too personally if I was overlooked as well. These days.. It would seem that much of the mail I receive is from folks who do not even read my profile at all.. otherwise they would know I am preoccupied with a particular young woman's attention. This can often lead to the question ~ Why should I bother to take the time to respond to a person that obviously did not take the time to read my profile in the first place? Congratulations to you's both...
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