Topic: Rude, crude, and unacceptable
soxfan94's photo
Wed 01/23/08 06:56 PM
I agree...it's hard not to get sucked in.

eileena9's photo
Wed 01/23/08 06:56 PM
I have noticed the rudeness in here over the past few months.........I tried to help a new member with a question and got accused of hitting on her. She even started a thread about it and complained about me (but didn't mention names).

She later wrote me another email with a lame apology about how she didn't even read the email, just saw it was from a female and took it as I was hitting on her.

FearandLoathing's photo
Wed 01/23/08 06:57 PM
I'm an anarchist, and an agnostic to top that off...been dealing with this for years, on and off-line.

Just do what I do, walk tall and don't give them more than a "alright".

soxfan94's photo
Wed 01/23/08 06:58 PM
Do you really catch flak for being an agnostic?

That seems odd...

tsw123's photo
Wed 01/23/08 06:59 PM

There also has to be a sense about what you post. You post a personal question looking for feedback, your going to get the good the bad and the ugly. Man up and take it, or dont put yourself out there.


well said

wanttachat's photo
Wed 01/23/08 07:00 PM

Is it just me or has anyone else noticed how rude people are about other people thoughts or feeling. What has happened to this place...it really isn't fun anymore. Maybe they should change the name from Just Say Hi, to I don't give a crap about anyone but myself. This place has really gone downhill.



that's why I don't come here as much any more frown

Fade2Black's photo
Wed 01/23/08 07:00 PM


Is it just me or has anyone else noticed how rude people are about other people thoughts or feeling. What has happened to this place...it really isn't fun anymore. Maybe they should change the name from Just Say Hi, to I don't give a crap about anyone but myself. This place has really gone downhill.

I have been on here since 06 and really haven't noticed a change at all. There are some people that are nice and some that aren't. No differnce than in real life! Maybe it is that has changed and you may have outgrown the site! Curt


Nice perspective smokin

IndnPrncs's photo
Wed 01/23/08 07:01 PM

Is it just me or has anyone else noticed how rude people are about other people thoughts or feeling. What has happened to this place...it really isn't fun anymore. Maybe they should change the name from Just Say Hi, to I don't give a crap about anyone but myself. This place has really gone downhill.


Chevy I don't think it's that bad.. some people aren't as nice as others but for the most part people care and show it.. I've only seen a few meanies..

If I don't like a post or find it totally stupid I rarely post, that's the beauty of it no matter how tired I get of seeing some of the same irritating stuff... Others may like it so it's there for them...

no photo
Wed 01/23/08 07:04 PM

Do you really catch flak for being an agnostic?

That seems odd...


It happens. I'm an atheist, and I got called a liar and a troll in the Religion forum, just for disagreeing with a Christian.

Yesterday, I got called a murderer just for saying I'm pro-choice, even though I've never impregnated anyone and have never been involved with any abortion scenario.

Some of the people here are just WAY beyond being reasoned with!


MsTeddyBear2u's photo
Wed 01/23/08 07:04 PM
Does someone need a spanking??? devil



Gumbyvs's photo
Wed 01/23/08 07:05 PM

Does someone need a spanking??? devil





I do I do!drinker

MsTeddyBear2u's photo
Wed 01/23/08 07:06 PM
laugh drinker

soxfan94's photo
Wed 01/23/08 07:06 PM


Do you really catch flak for being an agnostic?

That seems odd...


It happens. I'm an atheist, and I got called a liar and a troll in the Religion forum, just for disagreeing with a Christian.

Yesterday, I got called a murderer just for saying I'm pro-choice, even though I've never impregnated anyone and have never been involved with any abortion scenario.

Some of the people here are just WAY beyond being reasoned with!




Getting snide remarks for being an ATHEIST doesn't surprise me one bit. I got it a lot when I used to pretend I was an atheist just to annoy religious zealots. I was commenting specifically that I was surprised to hear someone ridiculed for being agnostic.

Rapunzel's photo
Wed 01/23/08 07:06 PM

Is it just me or has anyone else noticed how rude people are about other people thoughts or feeling. What has happened to this place...it really isn't fun anymore. Maybe they should change the name from Just Say Hi, to I don't give a crap about anyone but myself. This place has really gone downhill.



i totally agree drinker flowerforyou smokin flowerforyou drinker


madamx7316's photo
Wed 01/23/08 07:06 PM
i love most everyone here....i just go with the flow...cant please em all babe! xoxo

Dragoness's photo
Wed 01/23/08 07:07 PM


Yea, we all have our hot topic issues, but there's a lotta freaks on here that just post bitterness and hatred all the time. Maybe they should venture out into the world, instead of going online.


Even with the hot topic issues, though, there's no need for personal attacks or insults. It's entirely possible to argue without being argumentative or insulting. Dragoness and I went back and forth fairly strongly over the death penalty from very different sides, but I never felt insulted or angry. (Hopefully she didn't either!) drinker


No, you were greatflowerforyou I am usually the one getting down and gritty though so, I have to watch myself. I am extremely blunt

Rapunzel's photo
Wed 01/23/08 07:07 PM


Is it just me or has anyone else noticed how rude people are about other people thoughts or feeling. What has happened to this place...it really isn't fun anymore. Maybe they should change the name from Just Say Hi, to I don't give a crap about anyone but myself. This place has really gone downhill.


tell mama....





a perfect example of lack of compassion indifferent




Kravynn's photo
Wed 01/23/08 07:07 PM


Do you really catch flak for being an agnostic?

That seems odd...


It happens. I'm an atheist, and I got called a liar and a troll in the Religion forum, just for disagreeing with a Christian.

Yesterday, I got called a murderer just for saying I'm pro-choice, even though I've never impregnated anyone and have never been involved with any abortion scenario.

Some of the people here are just WAY beyond being reasoned with!




Well heres some ruffled feathers for ya. And this is the first time these words have ever come off my fingers on this site.
Im wiccan and pro-choice!

Raised Roman Catholic, Practiced Southern Baptist for a few years and I have 2 kids.

Rapunzel's photo
Wed 01/23/08 07:08 PM


Is it just me or has anyone else noticed how rude people are about other people thoughts or feeling. What has happened to this place...it really isn't fun anymore. Maybe they should change the name from Just Say Hi, to I don't give a crap about anyone but myself. This place has really gone downhill.


hey please tell me I'm not one of them. If I am, I will tone it down, I promise. flowerforyou





that is much better flowerforyou

oldsage's photo
Wed 01/23/08 07:08 PM
We all need to LEAD BY EXAMPLE.
Negative cannot stand in front of Positive.