I'm not going to say your wrong for not wanting to be around her. Maybe your other friends just want you and her to get along with each other because they care about both of you.

here's a thought!!! Have a separate poker night with your other friends and not invite those 2!!

Soooooooooooooooooooooooooooo TRUE!!!!


Seems the only loyal one here is you!!!

You need to sit back and look at this in a different way your being railroaded and don't even realize it!!

I have a feeling you're not joking!!!

GREAT IDEA!!! Who's up for some poker??? Beer and food on me!!!

well us JSHers have the backs of the other JSHers. You scratch our backs we will scratch yours

I was actually just having this conversation with a friend yesterday! You can't expect him to cut off his friendship with her just because you two broke up considering that she spent so much time with him at these poker nights. At the same time, he can't expect you to get over the breakup (you said it was bad) just because he wants to continue being friends with her. Just let him know that anytime he invites her not to expect you to go.

Okay read what you wrote in your own words shshshshhhshsh there are your real friends and if he was he would not put you in that situation!!!!

Thanks...but i really don't want to eat any food that has been "on you"

ok, jeff, here is my idea, either get a really hot girl to go with you and hang all over you at poker nite OR start drama with her and look at your friend and say "see what i mean? she's a *****"

(sorry. im close to you, want me to kick her ass???)

Makes you question the meaning of Friendship doesn't it?

U were hurt, sorry to hear that.......It would be another loss for you if u let the so called friend go, but sometimes starting over is not such a bad thing...Good luck

NICE......but you didn't say you didn't want the beer.

There's my Eagles buddy!!!! I'll email you her address....thanks Winnie

I have to agree with this...although there are two sides to the story and we only heard yours...I believe you, you sound sincere and genuine...However, maybe your friend is also in a precarious situation??...If you talked with him about this as you've mentioned however and he continues not to respect your wishes, then that in itself is wrong..you said that you are loyal to your friends?...hmmmmmm, doesn't sound as though they are loyal to you?!...just my opinion based on what you have told us....
Good Luck to you...

Well, I really don't expect him not to be her friend and stop inviting her.....just not to get mad at me for not coming. But my other friends won't go to the games anymore for the same reason. It's a weird situation. I will always be his friend. Just don't want to be around her. And there are 2 sides of the story I am sure. And you haven't even really heard the whole thing from me. Haha. Anyway, I appreciate all the advice. From everyone.

the alcohol will kill any bacteria that you may have

I dont know how to play poker but my son does!!! I can play crib though!!!

If your friend does to you, knowing how you feel, may as well get used to the fact they may date next. I dunno, my friends aren't like that......Thats a boundry we don t cross, unfortunatley girls come and go, thats life bro, my boys remain, and encourage each other, not bring drama in.

no lie. they need to choose where their loyalties are.
...and i'm a chick-
but i wouldn't kick it with my x's
peeps after a breakup unless i was plottin anyway.

thats what I'm saying, dude needs to lay the hammer to his bud...........UNLESS he knew HER before him, I'm sure there is way more to it.