Txs that's great that you guys talk not many people can do that. I know
I can't wit my xs if I did she probable try to get back with me.


Pms you welcome just some people just don't have a clue.

If I was involved in a LDR I would expect that we would both spend long
weekends, holidays, vacations together learning about each other and if
over time we decided we needed to be together regularly I guess we would
need to discuss who would be the one to move. If it made more sense for
me to move then yes I would. As children it is our job to grow up and
become independent and move away from our parents just as our children
will or have done. When they start a new life we are happy for them. As
an adult very few of us social creatures are ment to be alone so why not
take a chance on happiness.

LMAO, Shadow not saying a few have not tried that but hey with me once
ya break the trust I had with them its broke and time to move on and
believe me it has taken me many of years and time of being alone to see
the thing the way I do now I'm more open mined about life in general
than I have ever been. And willing to give more than before too.

Smiles Thank you

Txs yeah I can say the same thing but what I think is that more people
should spend a little time alone to see what is going around them. I
sure have and I'm glad I did :)

RIGHT-ON-TEXS......TIME-HURT--LEARN-ACT-BE!!!!!AND MORE TIME.LOL


AND PMS, ALL THAT YOU NEED IS A GREAT DUDE TO MAKE A BETTER IMPRESSION
FOR YOU ON EASTER, AND YOU WILL FORGET THE BAD-DAY..

Shadow, I know, and again Thank You.
And iam4u, I know that too, I just hope I meet him before Easter gets
here. LOL
PMS

PMS who know you just might get that :) But I wouldn't bet on it LMAO

I would have a real issue moving, just for a relationship, because I
have my home and my sons, and I would have to think about them before
miself. What about if the relationship is all good at the begining and
then it doesn't work out, what then? I would say first lets see how
real it is and make some arrangements, without moving away, specially if
you are a single mother like Im, have to be carefull making a decission
that can affect the lives of my children.

well, i keep hoping for Christmas, but not holding my breath.

if it were not for the fact that i have a court order keeping me in the
state of south dakota so my childrens father ca nsee them then yeah i
would move for the right person. i have moved so many times for the
military that this would not be an issue for me.

WELL, AT LEAST 'YOU' STILL HAVE HOPES!!!!!!!!

ME, I GAVE UP, AND 'NOW' JUST LIVE, W/O AND DON'T HAVE TO BE EXCITED
ABOUT ANYTHING.....LOL LIFE WORKS BETTER THAT WAY!!!

it isn't easy to have hope, but i try

No one said it would be easy but it get's better as we go on if we face
it. :)

yeah i know. just wish sometimes things would be easy.

iam4u, never give up. Besides if we give up, what do we have to look
forward to?
What the hell am I saying, what do I have to look forward to now? A cold
bed, no body heat, no one to argue with, no one to steal the covers,
ect...ect...ect... Wait a minute, isn't all that supposed to be a good
thing? Minus the lack of extra body heat, of course. LMAO
PMS

Well now when your kids are still little and at home you can't just jerk
them up away from there life for what ever reason the other spouse is
not there its all about the children before we put our happiness first
we must think about them for they are only little once and the rewards
we receive from them far exceed our own wants and needs once we have
raised them and they are living there own lives then we can focus on
ourselves at least that is what I did some might say that is wrong but
its there thoughts I did what I felt was right and would do it again now
it's time for me.

sometimes it is good, but other times it isn't

I guess I'm safe on that one. The father of my kids passed away a couple
of years ago of a heart attack. I only have one son who lives at home,
but he always will. So, it's just me and him.
PMS

Hey thanks for the replys everyone nice to see some of us are still
alive :)

shadow, thanks of posting this topic.