Topic: Did I get lead on ? | |
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This is crazy! But yeah, your girl definitely led you on, and the comment about men and women using people for sex, is completely true.
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Hey everyone whats up? alright this might be kind of long so, I apologize. Okay back in August, I started talking to this girl. First, I just want to say we never considered ourselves as dating but, this is what happened, things went down as if there was a chance, talking everyday, kissing, huging, saying nice things to eachother, things couldn't have been more perfect she def made it out as if great things were going to happen for us. She said wanted to slow things down, which I was def cool with. Then in October, the monday after the weekend of my birthday lol she emails me saying that, she can't see us dating, she wants to be friends and all that. I took that as maybe she maybe wanted to think things through, but, to me I think she lead me on which pretty much alot of people said you think I did ? Yes that was pretty crappy of her to do that.... been there, done that...alot of people do this |
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Edited by
Jistme
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Fri 01/18/08 05:14 AM
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OK..humor me. Knowing I'm only hearing one side of the story. Actually..probably less then half of the story. I took these following statements as the operative ones.
First, I just want to say we never considered ourselves as dating but, Cool. Your not dating. Just affectionately friendly maybe? she def made it out as if great things were going to happen for us. Maybe... But you two weren't dating. It sounds like it might be possible she might have wanted the relationship to graduate?
but, to me I think she lead me on
How? You two weren't dating. You said you didn't consider the two of you ~ as dating..
Maybe she just got tired of waiting for you to make a move? I knew right there she was not worth because she couldn't tell me in person Why? You two weren't dating.. Even though you realized she made it clear she might have wanted something different. Considering the casual relationship... maybe in her mind, it only required a casual email?
I'm not saying this is what went down.. I'm saying there is always more then one side to every story involving two people. _____________________________________________________ i can sum this up in one word,,,,,,,,,,,women
So much for that old adage.. With age, comes wisdom. |
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Have you considered that she saw something in you that she knows she could not deal with? No one is perfect for everyone.....
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Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm she tried you out and there was no chemistry.........no big huge drama here........NEXT!!! Exactly, not a big deal. Doesnt mean you cant still be friends. |
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This is crazy! But yeah, your girl definitely led you on, and the comment about men and women using people for sex, is completely true. Uhmm, you could certainly use me if you wanted. |
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