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Topic: No kids?
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Thu 01/17/08 09:34 AM
I've made it clear from Day One that I don't want kids and won't get involved with anyone who has them.

But people still write to me and tell me I'm wrong, and that I should date them, even though they have kids, BECAUSE I'm wrong.

I mean -- WTF?

I'm not allowed to determine my own standards now?


MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 01/17/08 09:34 AM
smokin I consider it a good thing if a woman doesnt have kids.smokin Im not interested in playing "daddy" to somebody elses kid.glasses

jtitol's photo
Thu 01/17/08 09:35 AM
i believe people should have kids until they are mature enough to take care of themselves at least sorry but i know some people who never reach this stage have couple of children

MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 01/17/08 09:35 AM

I've made it clear from Day One that I don't want kids and won't get involved with anyone who has them.

But people still write to me and tell me I'm wrong, and that I should date them, even though they have kids, BECAUSE I'm wrong.

I mean -- WTF?

I'm not allowed to determine my own standards now?


smokin I think you are absolutely right.smokin I basically feel the same way.smokin

Brenna24's photo
Thu 01/17/08 09:37 AM

smokin I consider it a good thing if a woman doesnt have kids.smokin Im not interested in playing "daddy" to somebody elses kid.glasses


thats a hard role but also most women that have kids have a hard time letting men who are not he real father to play daddy cause they think who are you to tell my kids what to do! thats the way i feel bout my dog i hate it when people tell him what to do hello i'm mommy ill do it hahaha

longhairbiker's photo
Thu 01/17/08 09:38 AM
I'm 42 no children. But then again I never grew up nor was trapped into having children. But I've had more time to accomplish things and revel in my achievements.

MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 01/17/08 09:43 AM

I'm 42 no children. But then again I never grew up nor was trapped into having children. But I've had more time to accomplish things and revel in my achievements.
glasses I agree.glasses Im only 30 and Ive never had children and never really "grew up" and I feel like Ive been able to accomplish more things and achieve more in my life than my friends and family who have kids.glasses It just seems like people with kids dont have as much time and freedom as me.glasses

MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 01/17/08 09:46 AM


smokin I consider it a good thing if a woman doesnt have kids.smokin Im not interested in playing "daddy" to somebody elses kid.glasses


thats a hard role but also most women that have kids have a hard time letting men who are not he real father to play daddy cause they think who are you to tell my kids what to do! thats the way i feel bout my dog i hate it when people tell him what to do hello i'm mommy ill do it hahaha
glasses You are partially correct.glasses Young mothers generally want you to "play daddy" while the more experienced mothers generally dont expect you to be responsible for their children.glasses That has been my experience.glasses

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