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Topic: Confidence is everything
SquizTheClown Joined Fri 01/04/08 Posts: 327	Thu 01/17/08 07:52 AM
I have been trying to think of why last night's date went so well. I've realized it's probably compatibility to some extent, but mostly stems from the confidence I had in myself

Zackattack Joined Fri 01/04/08 Posts: 162	Thu 01/17/08 07:53 AM
sure always good to be confident not cocky but confident in everything

StAnD_oUt Joined Wed 01/09/08 Posts: 78	Thu 01/17/08 07:53 AM
Good for you! Wanna teach me?

SquizTheClown Joined Fri 01/04/08 Posts: 327	Thu 01/17/08 07:53 AM
Good for you! Wanna teach me? lol Wish I knew how I did it! But goes to show, this site works!

pkh Joined Sat 05/26/07 Posts: 14961	Thu 01/17/08 07:55 AM
I agree confidence is the key good for you

Turtlepoet78 Joined Sat 11/24/07 Posts: 1423	Thu 01/17/08 07:56 AM
heh, wish I could be more confident when dealing with the ladies. It's next to impossible for me though unless I've known her for a while. Oh well, maybe there's a fun lady somewhere who thinks nervousness is cute..lol;^]

chuck366 Joined Tue 10/16/07 Posts: 4666	Thu 01/17/08 07:57 AM
I have been trying to think of why last night's date went so well. I've realized it's probably compatibility to some extent, but mostly stems from the confidence I had in myself overthinking will get you in trouble, just enjoy the moment

franshade Joined Tue 07/24/07 Posts: 24704	Thu 01/17/08 07:57 AM
WTG SQUIZ!!!! Good 4 u!!!

chuck366 Joined Tue 10/16/07 Posts: 4666	Thu 01/17/08 07:59 AM
heh, wish I could be more confident when dealing with the ladies. It's next to impossible for me though unless I've known her for a while. Oh well, maybe there's a fun lady somewhere who thinks nervousness is cute..lol;^] Just go for it! Every woman puts there pants on one leg at a time just like you. rejection is part of life

iceprincess Joined Tue 11/07/06 Posts: 5938	Thu 01/17/08 07:59 AM
when you doubt yourself(or appear too) it makes others around you wonder if they should also be doubting you. Confidence or the appearence of is always a good thing. why you so nervous turtle?

iceprincess Joined Tue 11/07/06 Posts: 5938	Thu 01/17/08 08:01 AM
heh, wish I could be more confident when dealing with the ladies. It's next to impossible for me though unless I've known her for a while. Oh well, maybe there's a fun lady somewhere who thinks nervousness is cute..lol;^] Just go for it! Every woman puts there pants on one leg at a time just like you. rejection is part of life that's not always true chuck sometimes i prefer to lie on the bed put both legs in and pull them up...............LOL rejection is always a learning experience.........

Staynalone Joined Tue 03/20/07 Posts: 784	Thu 01/17/08 08:02 AM
Big cheer for Squiz Turtle just be yourself and there will be no price to pay later

Turtlepoet78 Joined Sat 11/24/07 Posts: 1423	Thu 01/17/08 08:03 AM
Naw, it's not so much rejection as it is my nerves, it's that way when meeting anybody new. My doc. says it's normal for people in my condition (schizo effective), my brain just farts in social settings..lol;^]

SquizTheClown Joined Fri 01/04/08 Posts: 327	Thu 01/17/08 08:03 AM
Thank you all, it was a wonderful evening, talked for HOURS over coffee... Hey turtle, I found out that if you can be happy with yourself, there is someone who can be happy with you too!

chuck366 Joined Tue 10/16/07 Posts: 4666	Thu 01/17/08 08:04 AM
heh, wish I could be more confident when dealing with the ladies. It's next to impossible for me though unless I've known her for a while. Oh well, maybe there's a fun lady somewhere who thinks nervousness is cute..lol;^] Just go for it! Every woman puts there pants on one leg at a time just like you. rejection is part of life that's not always true chuck sometimes i prefer to lie on the bed put both legs in and pull them up...............LOL rejection is always a learning experience......... now thats talent.

Turtlepoet78 Joined Sat 11/24/07 Posts: 1423	Thu 01/17/08 08:07 AM
Thank you all, it was a wonderful evening, talked for HOURS over coffee... Hey turtle, I found out that if you can be happy with yourself, there is someone who can be happy with you too! hehe, my ex fiance used to be as nervous as me so I know there's more like her somewhere. I made a mistake in my last post, brain fart really isn't clear enough, it's more being overwhelmed by social settings;^]

iceprincess Joined Tue 11/07/06 Posts: 5938	Thu 01/17/08 08:08 AM
Think so chuck............LOL Turtle Just be YOU if you can be yourself then she can be herself and if you mesh it'll be awsome. Never try to be something your not in order for someone else to be comfortable eventually it'll all fall apart.

chuck366 Joined Tue 10/16/07 Posts: 4666	Thu 01/17/08 08:08 AM Edited by chuck366 on Thu 01/17/08 08:09 AM
Naw, it's not so much rejection as it is my nerves, it's that way when meeting anybody new. My doc. says it's normal for people in my condition (schizo effective), my brain just farts in social settings..lol;^] Do you worry about what people think of you? If so, don t. Be you and if that isn t good enough, they can hit the road Jack!

Turtlepoet78 Joined Sat 11/24/07 Posts: 1423	Thu 01/17/08 08:11 AM
Naw, for the most part I don't worry about what people think, being nervous is just part of my make up in life, something I have to keep in check but still part of who I am;^]

SquizTheClown Joined Fri 01/04/08 Posts: 327	Thu 01/17/08 08:12 AM
Naw, for the most part I don't worry about what people think, being nervous is just part of my make up in life, something I have to keep in check but still part of who I am;^] Now don't think I'm saying I wasn't nervous, I was sweating freaking bullets! But it only took me a few moments to feel real relaxed around her, and let my intelligence take over!