Topic: Ladies do you email/IM the guys ?
MsTeddyBear2u's photo
Wed 01/16/08 07:17 PM
Um I think I did e-mail a couple of times when I first got here...
but have'nt since.


Still waiting for e-mails...(places impatient emotioncon here).
Guess I'm a bit ole' school!

Starts scratchin' the dirt and clucking too... :wink:

Moondark's photo
Wed 01/16/08 07:18 PM
I have.

MirrorMirror's photo
Wed 01/16/08 07:18 PM

I think it's great women would want make the first move:smile:
glasses Well its not really a "first move". Its just an email.glasses It could be about anythingglasses

alonenotlonely's photo
Wed 01/16/08 07:18 PM
Unless you're really out here in the forums, you have less than an idea who you're emailing. It could be someone who was on here only once and never coming back or someone who only checks in . . . on blue moons. Don't take it personal. Who knows? You mighta dodged a bullet!

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Wed 01/16/08 07:19 PM




glasses Sometimes the ladies email first and sometimes they don't.glasses I've found that it differs from person to person.glasses


Mirror do you have a preference?
glasses Well, I'm a guy and I prefer the ladies to email me first, I certainly dont mind.glasses I'm here to make friends.glasses I've talked to a lot of people on JSH.glasses Sometimes they contact me first,and sometimes I contact them first.glasses Most of the women in the forums are polite enough to respond in a timely fashion.glasses


I am comfortable in the forums, just not the one on one thing. I was raised that ladies don't make the 1st move. Seems the rules have changed.

soxfan94's photo
Wed 01/16/08 07:20 PM
For the record, I'm meeting a girl from here for drinks on friday...and she emailed me first.

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Wed 01/16/08 07:20 PM
I get lots of e-mail from women here -- which is good because I won't e-mail anyone first. I was too traumatized by my bad experiences trying to e-mail locals when I first signed up, and getting ZERO replies.

So I said screw it, anybody wants to talk to me, they can send the first one. And they do, now that I've been here awhile and people know me from my posts, and from trying to read my profile.

But I still never hear from anyone local. So screw them, too.



Ramfan4's photo
Wed 01/16/08 07:20 PM
I don't see many e-mails typically just friend after friend request...which then what? okay now I am friends with a stranger...

MirrorMirror's photo
Wed 01/16/08 07:21 PM


I think it's great women would want make the first move:smile:
glasses Well its not really a "first move". Its just an email.glasses It could be about anythingglasses

SALGAL83's photo
Wed 01/16/08 07:21 PM


Oh yeah, we aren't afraid to make the first move if we like the guy.


Sal Gal, get out here and post. You're the only really cool young chick on here I've read other than my own daughters.

Thank you!!

Suzanne20's photo
Wed 01/16/08 07:21 PM

I don't see many e-mails typically just friend after friend request...which then what? okay now I am friends with a stranger...


laugh laugh

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Wed 01/16/08 07:22 PM

For the record, I'm meeting a girl from here for drinks on friday...and she emailed me first.


Good luck Soxfan.

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Wed 01/16/08 07:23 PM

I don't see many e-mails typically just friend after friend request...which then what? okay now I am friends with a stranger...

no photo
Wed 01/16/08 07:23 PM

I don't see many e-mails typically just friend after friend request...which then what? okay now I am friends with a stranger...


yeah that seems weird.

DrX's photo
Wed 01/16/08 07:24 PM
I send pipe bombs through email. shhhh the FBI is watching.

soxfan94's photo
Wed 01/16/08 07:24 PM


good luck Soxfan



Wasn't trying to make that the topic of conversation, just mentioning it as an example that women do email first sometimes. And sometimes it even works! Haha.


...but thanks. :smile:

MirrorMirror's photo
Wed 01/16/08 07:24 PM
glasses I dont understand what the big deal is !!!glasses Its just an email.glasses It could be about anything.glasses

Ramfan4's photo
Wed 01/16/08 07:25 PM


I don't see many e-mails typically just friend after friend request...which then what? okay now I am friends with a stranger...


yeah that seems weird.


Yeah it's pointless. But what ever.. i dunno if it is bait or what but I never bite.

MirrorMirror's photo
Wed 01/16/08 07:25 PM

I send pipe bombs through email. shhhh the FBI is watching.
noway

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Wed 01/16/08 07:27 PM

glasses I dont understand what the big deal is !!!glasses Its just an email.glasses It could be about anything.glasses


well It's hard to overcome your upbringing sometimes I was raised old school