all rite so i have been on again and off again with the same guy for six yrs... we have dated other ppl and than gone back to eachother... but now he is moving away to virgina and i just found out that in the past three weeks that i haven't seen him he has been with his ex that i hate and hasn't said a word about it... i was just wondering if anyone else would be mad and not want to see him before he leaves..or just not care say goodbye and let him go with out eva saying anything about it... let me know what you think.... thanx

manda!!!

My advice is to let him go and move on. You don't want to get hurt by him.

thats a shame !

Let it go....some things are better left unsaid. You deserve so much better!!

true thanx nessa your probably rite...

I know I would regret not at least saying goodbye.

i think his behavior has said all that needs to be said.

walk away counting your blessings.

As bad as it hurts, he doesnt deserve the respect from you because he was hiding things from you..thats not cool..you put effort into this if what your saying is true. He took total advantage of that, if you feel you need to say "goodbye'..Do it over the phone and once you hang up....start over right then and there

SAY GOOD BYE!!! He was just using you!!

I was in the same spot as you three years ago. Only he was sleeping with my best friend,Then he moved away with her to texas. Later on he sent me a letter saying she was pregnant by him also. So before you get hurt just move on and find someone who deserves you. If you need someone to talk to,you can always talk to me.

aww nessa thats sweet if i do need anyone to talk too i will let you know.. you guys have really been giveing me the feed back i need to hear thanx a million...

i would'nt have anything to do with him.not even a word.the sooner he's out of your life,the better.

i actually think he's doing you a favor and would look at it as such you dont need someone in your life like that any way ..seems to me he couldn't be honest with you so ....ADIOS