Describe what you think love is? Winner gets a date.

Here is what I think it is.

Love is that feeling you get in the pit of your stomach when you see that special person. The smile you get on your face when you see them across the room and they don't see you looking. The sweat between your hands because you have been holding hands to long. A hug for nothing at all. Tears of happiness. Smelling thier perfume or cologne even though they are not around. The urge to write beautiful things to them. Even the annoying things they do you learn to love. Love is the shoulder to lay a head. A three word sentence that freezes us in our track when heard for the first time. That something you miss when it's gone and would die for when you have it. That one thing we all long for and rarely ever find. We yurn for it, die for it and mostly live our lives for it.

with you

alright

And you expect us to top that?

"What is Love" by: Haddaway

CHORUS:
What is love
Baby don't hurt me
Don't hurt me
no more

Baby don't hurt me
Don't hurt me
no more
What is love
Yeah

Oh I don't know
why you're not fair
I give you my love
but you don't care
So what is right
and what is wrong
gimme a sign


(chorus x2)

uoh oh...
Oh I don't know
what can I do
what else can I say
it's up to you
I know we're one
just me and you
I can't go on

(chorus x2)

uoh oh..
What is love
What is love
What is love
Baby don't hurt me
Don't hurt me
no more
Don't hurt me
Don't hurt me


I want no other
No other love
This is your life
our time
When we are together
I need you forever
Is it love

(chorus x2)

uoh oh..

(chorus x2)

Baby don't hurt me
Don't hurt me
no more
Baby don't hurt me
Don't hurt me
no more
Baby don't hurt me
Don't hurt me
no more
Baby don't hurt me
Don't hurt me
no more
what is love?!...
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Its a song?

yeah...exactly...that's what it is and should be and i'm not settling for anything less

Yeah club song from the nineties by haddaway

I don't believe so. Physical attirance can do that to you too.
For me love is far more than that.It is a dedication to a cause or to a person; a dedication that makes you loose yourself to the other in order to feel satisfied in your soul. It is the satisfaction in the unification with the other soul!!!

Well said

Love is the answer

There are many definitions of the word love, and that's what mixes people up so much. There is love, as in, "I love this pizza", which I do, yumm. There is love, as in "I can tolerate this person for a lifetime commitment, I must love her"? There is, "I married her, didn't I?". We've got "I totally saw this hot chick last night, and I love to bang her." And my favorite "You say nothing lasts forever, what makes love the exception?" love. I'd love to hear what you have to say about that.

Love is when you need someone to lean on, you turn aound and they are there. When you need to talk, your the only one they hear. when you want to just cuddle, that's all you share and when you want more; it's there. Love is hard to define
but it's two equal halves as a whole in step with each other's
thoughts,step,feelings,sorrows, and laughter!

That's quite a spin you put on it. But yeah your right. But I wouldn't say to my wife I love you like pizza. You don't get married if you don't love her. If you did that you loved to bang her. Love actually does last forever, even when you die. Your kids will love you when your gone and so will your wife that you loved to bang but didn't marry her because you loved her. That's what I have to say about that.

It's in my nature to be cynical, or as I like to think of it, realistic. I look at the divorce rate, and why people really get married, and these so called "loving" couples, and that people seem to believe that you can only "love" one person as a marital partner "loves" another, and yet if that person dies you can suddenly "love" someone else... the evidence just does not stack up in favor of an eternal everlasting and immortal love. It's hard to describe my thoughts on the matter in such short verse. It's not like I'm saying that love doesn't exist... just not how people perceive it to be.

Agreed. We all percieve it differently. I am also divorced but still love my ex-wife. But yes the love at first site is a dreamers fantasy. The divorce rate is high. It's not because people don't love each other it's because they jump way to quickly at both marriage and divorce. It's easy to get into both. Eternal love excists but we as people in our society now don't know how to wait for it to come along. We live in an impatient world, with impatient people and most of all impatient hearts. Most even on this site are on the rebound because of the idea of love. What they expect it to be, what the have experienced it to be, what they want it to be. Most of us are looking for another love to seal the wounds of a lost one, because we as people are not patient enough to let time heal what a lost love has done to us. What I percieve it to be is the an undeniable feeling that only few really ever get.

yes, people DO get married, even when they don't 'love'. people get married out of convenience..when it suits their 'need' at any particular time.

have you met my X hub's new wife? they're married cuz it was convenient..he needed help with daily life on the farm, and she needed a 'father' to keep custody of her daughter's daughter..

there's no 'love' there, they just knew eachother's need at the time

<---- NOT Ellgee's ex husband!

lmao so true..i still LIKE you :P

Love is an attraction to another person, via physical, mental and emotional to the point you form a bond, not matter how small. Even if it's just one way.

True love is when the bond is strong enough you'd do anything for that person. Even take their burdens unto your self and willingly inconvience yourself to help them get over it. Even to the point of making the ultimate sacrifice for their benifit, if it ever came to that.

True love bonds are not tested by strictly physical attraction after phyiscal fade, and if it's true love it grows stronger with age.