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OMG someone help lol i apparently am allergic to men ( joking here people) it seems lately I cant find a good honest person. the last 5 men basically in the end have told me what i wnated to hear..do the deed and then just "disappear" my uestin is........just how and when do u knwo they are telling the truth? i apparently cant tell lol any advice?
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OMG someone help lol i apparently am allergic to men ( joking here people) it seems lately I cant find a good honest person. the last 5 men basically in the end have told me what i wnated to hear..do the deed and then just "disappear" my uestin is........just how and when do u knwo they are telling the truth? i apparently cant tell lol any advice? |
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I see this alot , What type of guys are you going for
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You never will know
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Just kidding
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Um...wait to "do the deed" until you are relativly sure that not all they are after.
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no do the deed. Tell em not until you've been dating so many months. If they are still with you then, they are good ones. If not, then they are the bad ones. Of course, a bad one just might have that much patience, but guys just after sex won't.
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Not too sure what your saying...all I can say is, I talk to the person frequently,so that I can pick up on "just what they are looking for" When I get that gut instinct to run....I RUN FOR THE HILLS
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oh!! boy !! have i been in your shoes, im also a single mom and grandmother of 3 and there is this guy i met awhile back and i feel some ways hes not telling me the truth and then in other ways i feel he is.. its hard to tell..and yea and most of the time there looking for one thing and that not what is on my mind.........
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sometimes you never know. It comes with trust and if you've been burned, and you have, its really hard to trust and you start thinking all men are the same, which they aren't. Keeping looking you will find one who deserves you.
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Well if they act nervous,
change the subject a lot, or don't look you in the eye when you're asking them a direct question then they're probably not telling the truth. And it might be a good idea not to sleep with them too soon, because, as you indicated, they got what they wanted, so therefore felt no need to stick around. |
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What's the DEED???
Like on your house??? |
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it is hard to tell if anyone if truthful.
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What's the DEED??? Like on your house??? Come to me and I'll show you catch!! |
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Do the deed means play monopoly right, thats what I usually do, LOL. Great game, but I want all the railraods .
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I have a friend who wouldnt sleep with her bf until they both had aids tests done....that slowed it down for a bit....he still ended up being a jerk though....
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laugh it off...change the subject..what ru projecting??? if ur prof says wanting a relationship or dating then that goes with the terrritory.besides wats wrong with a little retuitive sex..lol just have safe fun. k. take it easy
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Some People play games guys and girls. Could it be how your Dad was. Like did he treat your mom like that. If so you need to step back and reevaluate wht youthink is attractive. Because you are attracted to something you may not be able to expplain in words but it is common with all the men you've dated. So step back regroup try to not be affraid to like a good guy. I mean maybe you think a good guy would not like you. I am sure you would be wrong
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