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I knoww but honestly its how I feel and also I think whats holding me abck is the fact ht we only been dating for a month
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yes a month is a short time to say i love you.i guess its had if hes already saying it.tell him you need time
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I went out with a girl for a couple of months recently, neither one of us said it, I coundn't ever see myself saying it so I had to break it off even though I liked her a lot. When you use the L word it means you are ready to commit
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I think thats what im gonna have to do...
I mean ok yes im very happy with him but I honestly dont think im ready to say i love you to him yett |
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Edited by
Knotworthy
on
Tue 01/08/08 12:38 PM
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I think that's a good idea. You're still young, you've got a lot of living ahead of you, take your time.
Take it from an old fart like me who's been around and made a lot of dumb mistakes. |
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Yeaa...
And maybe you can help me widd this lil problem im having I got my cellphone bill and I went ove my miutes because of him and me talking all the time and my phones about to be shut off and I told him my phone might be shut off and he insisted on giving me money to help pay for the bill and I wont let him but he keeps insisting on it... I dont want him to feel as though he has to fix my mistakes just for me stay widd him and make me happy |
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print out this post and give it to him to read
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excellent idea Chuck
It'll show him how torn up you are over this and if he really does care he'll understand |
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excellent idea Chuck It'll show him how torn up you are over this and if he really does care he'll understand Thanks I stumble across one periodically |
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Yeaa...
Its juss with the cellphone thing it wasnt his fault I stayed on the phone him for hours wasting minutes and he insist on paying my bill now |
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Yeaa... And maybe you can help me widd this lil problem im having I got my cellphone bill and I went ove my miutes because of him and me talking all the time and my phones about to be shut off and I told him my phone might be shut off and he insisted on giving me money to help pay for the bill and I wont let him but he keeps insisting on it... I dont want him to feel as though he has to fix my mistakes just for me stay widd him and make me happy Personally I could never take money from someone, not even my friends and family, once you do you feel like you owe them. Unless it is understood that it is a loan and you will pay it back, but then you MUST pay it back. |
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I didnt ask him to pay the bill I really didnt
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excellent idea Chuck It'll show him how torn up you are over this and if he really does care he'll understand Thanks I stumble across one periodically Just so you know I'm straight Chuck, just kiddin around. But I'm always willing to help someone out if I can |
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I didnt ask him to pay the bill I really didnt Is he older and maybe in a better position financially than you? |
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Hes 24
And owns 2 cars so I guess you could say hes more financially set than me.. |
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I don't know, if you really need the money, take it for now but pay him back so you don't feel obligated, and you can keep your pride. Just my opinion, that's the way I am. Inevitably you will do what you want, just giving my 2 cents.
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Hes 24 And owns 2 cars so I guess you could say hes more financially set than me.. Love doesn t keep score, love is kind, love is not jealous, love is patient........and a bunch of other stuff I forgot |
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Yeah! whatever Chuck is trying to say
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Best of luck to ya bud
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if u truley love him then why does your profile say looking for a man for dating?
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