Okay, the fact that you work with her will make it really sucky. She doesn't sound like that good of a person though. I mean, you were dating her for 6 months, while obviously she was seeing someone else on a very serious level - and was probably in a relationship with that other man, and was cheating on him with you.

She is a LOSER!

Now the part comes, you've been screwed. Yup, we all have. But, you are better off without her. Ya, it hurts like he--! Ya, it hurts for a LLOONNGG time too.

Now you gotta figure out a way to deal with her at work. I'd recommend professional conversation topics only. Lots of distance.

Jim it sucks and she's a jerk but thank God you didn't marry her.. Besides 6 mos is too early to be sure you want to marry someone and spend the rest of your life with them... She did you a favor in a sick twisted way... Imagine if you had married her and she did worse?

Well you could have been married for 14 years and your spouse could of left you for a younger woman. Now you have two girls to raise and a huge mortgage on top of that, and he's living in a condo they bought together!! Oh and were not even divorced!

I bet you're glad now!!

jim4472 I say this, its 2008. If she did you wrong but you will find better. A person like that will end up alone sooner or later, just remember dont give in to her. They always come back around. I know you will find some one better. Just takes time. My father always told me never search for love, it will find you. I wish you the best in 2008, hope all goes well with you.

ouch well be the bigger man and tell her your happy and she owes you the rest on the minutes

I fu$king hate bytches like that, I hope they burn in hell and women wonder why we treat them like shyt.

Yeah! But there are men like that too! Not all women are like that, just like not all men are like my ex....

That's really cowardly. Breaking up with someone with a text message... Some people are just worthless wuss-bags. This is America isn't it? Where did everyone's spines go? Whatever happened to the WWII-type toughness? Sad, sad, sad... I think it's time for Dennis Leary to be president, and toughen people up.

Plus, if she is the game player she sounds like, doing the above will truly piss her off - a perfect step! You gotta be really sincere in how you communicate too...

you know what I just busted my girlfriend cheating yesterday so I am a little bitter.

Well at least she didn't keep you on a leash after that at least she broke it off. My ex keep me on a leash for three months after our breakup claiming she was giving me another chance and getting all my morals up and telling me how I was so much better than this other guy... I got tired of it and told her off (it was hard as hell cause I really loved this girl alot) but it was tearing me up inside to know she was with this other guy, and her best friend rubbed it in my face that he kissed her. I think I would of rather been dumped than drug on and poisoned for three months now I feel alot worse. Anyways goodluck with that man my heart go's out to the good people that gets played, hurt, or used I know the hurt and pain only to well, I don't think women want nice guys anymore, they want the cocky self centered guys that have lots of confidence but no respect for the women... thats my two bits.

That explains it. Understandable. I call it a potato on my shoulder (bigger than a chip). I pretty much avoid everyone until the mood passes.

Just be glad that the clammy one is gone..!! Move on man...it only gets better

You know what men are much more faithful the women!!!!!!

Not true 82280. I would love to find a nice sincere guy who doesn't play games and only want to text instead of talking on the phone..... Oh and one who doesn't cheat on me. But seriously we want a guy who's nice on the inside and is honest!! The rest is just icing on the cake....

Not in California Semiloco!!!

I'll believe you when I see it, lets see... 4 times I've been cheated on and left for another guy, and 2 times I've been used and left? I pretty much dump my heart and soul into trying to get them to like me and to pamper them etc.... Buy them dinner, take them to a movie, let them chose what to do, seen them at college, treated her roomate, her, and her sister to dinner many times, bought them things for holidays, did special things on holidays, etc.... and in the end they always leave me for the other guy and make me out to feel like I'm a piece of crap. I've never once told a girl anything bad at all when I was seeing them, and in the end this girl told me I hurt her, that I pushed her away, and that everything I did was for myself and not for her at all. So I believe I've pretty much lost hope in women... my heart has felt like someones been crushing it for three months now. Therapy and depression meds don't do a dang thing ether there pointless and are just costing me money.

Men really are more "loyal". We do obviously stupid $hit...women tend to be more sneaky & devious. IMHO

At least you didn't find out 6 months into a marriage that she was leaving you. Be forewarned that crazy crunt will be back at your doorstep wanting you back in less than 6 months. Ask for your money back for the phone minutes and everything else you spent/wasted on her. I've been there. Sorry it happened to you to.

Nope my ex was a cop and you aren't going to convince me otherwise. Men and women cheat! He and all his buddies do it all the time, besides cheating he abused me..... How could a guy do that to a woman and his two lil daughters....... I didn't even kick him out, he left.... I don't think one sex does it over the other, it's a personal thing and some people are just jerks and selfish............