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Topic: HOW CAN YOU LOVE TO MUCH
marty0764 Joined Fri 01/04/08 Posts: 7	Sat 01/05/08 04:28 PM
I told i love to much and to hard. I had the same guy cheat on me twice now and tells me that i didn't nothing wrong except love to much. how can this be is that what men are looking for is a women to give her all?

Impala13 Joined Fri 08/10/07 Posts: 2983	Sat 01/05/08 04:30 PM
ya i think alot of people fall to hard and sometimes it can be bad. i try not too.

Nickster214 Joined Fri 01/04/08 Posts: 31	Sat 01/05/08 04:32 PM
How can loving too much be an excuse for cheating.....Just a thought

Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Sat 01/05/08 04:32 PM
maybe 'love too much' is incorrect wording .. I think GIVE too much can be suffocating perhaps. Keep some parameters. I know for me if a guy is toooo willing to please, it gets suffocating. And I'm done. The challenge has to remain .. even if just a little.

LadyOfMagic Joined Fri 09/29/06 Posts: 4957	Sat 01/05/08 04:33 PM
I think he actually meant that you didnt love yourself enough..I believe in giving people and relationships a second chance but in the process of loving him..you forgot to love yourself.

wouldee Joined Sun 10/07/07 Posts: 5335	Sat 01/05/08 04:34 PM
I think the guy intended on spinning his foolishness to make you think on you and not on his BS. Your feelings and attentions are not being appreciated and respecteed, are they?

CaRisLOVE Joined Fri 11/02/07 Posts: 3459	Sat 01/05/08 04:41 PM
there is no such thing as how much one can love love is love

whatupgangsta Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 1462	Sat 01/05/08 04:45 PM
what is 'love'

eventchic33 Joined Wed 12/05/07 Posts: 200	Sat 01/05/08 04:46 PM
i was told that i didn't love enough and yet for 6 years i gave up something that was part of me and made me who i am. how is that not loving enough?

marty0764 Joined Fri 01/04/08 Posts: 7	Sat 01/05/08 04:50 PM
i wish i knew what excault men want

CaRisLOVE Joined Fri 11/02/07 Posts: 3459	Sat 01/05/08 05:06 PM
i wish i knew what excault men want same with woman lets just sum it to humans humans want love and respect i want tha love and respect but i will definently harness myself to earn it

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Sat 01/05/08 05:15 PM
how can anyone respect you if you let them cheat on you??? There should be no second chances with cheating....

Muddysneakers77 Joined Thu 08/02/07 Posts: 1530	Sat 01/05/08 05:19 PM
how can anyone respect you if you let them cheat on you??? There should be no second chances with cheating.... /love the gypster

marty0764 Joined Fri 01/04/08 Posts: 7	Sat 01/05/08 05:26 PM
sorry to say but it was the first time it every happen to me!!!!! and we where split up for eight months i though he change that what i get for thinking

CaRisLOVE Joined Fri 11/02/07 Posts: 3459	Sat 01/05/08 05:26 PM
how can anyone respect you if you let them cheat on you??? There should be no second chances with cheating.... some do forgive, but cheating is definently wrong cause it is loss of respect

onegoofydame Joined Fri 08/17/07 Posts: 3560	Sat 01/05/08 05:26 PM
Marty...that guy was so full of sh*t. You cannot love too much.

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Sat 01/05/08 05:28 PM
To love someone, you also have to love yourself, which means respect yourself. He didnt deserve you.....

CaRisLOVE Joined Fri 11/02/07 Posts: 3459	Sat 01/05/08 05:30 PM
for him to cheat shows he didnt love himself keep loving no matter wat

onegoofydame Joined Fri 08/17/07 Posts: 3560	Sat 01/05/08 05:30 PM
Exactly, Gypsy.

onegoofydame Joined Fri 08/17/07 Posts: 3560	Sat 01/05/08 05:31 PM
And CaRisLOVE