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I'll probably try one more time if she comes around again, but i'm not really gonna put too much into it unless she does. And then thats it.
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being strung along its not cool.it hurts .i know i'm not waiting for my ex yeah he needs to go off a cliff.if he tells you something you can assume hes lying.i think if you start something with someone else it isn't very fair of you either This is just my opinion, but if you aren't over your ex then you are not ready to date. I think people need to make sure that their heart and their head (even the little one) need to be on the same page.........good luck 
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Edited by
Fade2Black
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Sat 01/05/08 06:35 PM
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I'm being strung along and I know it. My ex girl knows that I want her back and she wants to stay in contact with me. She's with another guy already. Don't get me wrong, their relationship was doomed before it started. I'm not even worried about that. Yea, she likes him and all i'm sure, but you don't tell your ex you love them still and really care that much abou the one you're with. I know she loves me and she thinks I'll always be there. So i'm trying to cut ties, for at least a month or so. But it's hard when you love them and you KNOW they still care for you too. She just doesn't want me right now because she can. How do I show her that i'm not waiting around, but I still want her back later when she comes to her senses, if she does? When I first broke up w/my BF, I did start talking to someone else. We didn't talk for 2 months. Then he wrote one day and wanted to start talking again .. seeing if there was anything. I was game. I told the other guy I needed to stop talking to him because I didn't realize it but my heart was still with my exBF. If she is interested she should do the same. If she won't then this is not worth pursuing hon. At least not now. Cut the ties. Don't take yourself down. 
ps .. what's she's doing, btw, is keeping her options open .. keeping a 'backup plan'. That's bullsh*t. And demeaning to you. I know. I've done it before, and realized it was wrong and stopped. MOVE ON.
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