Topic: Do you have a relationship on JSH:?
gracekelley's photo
Sat 01/05/08 08:21 AM
Nope, everyone I message doesnt message me back

eskimo_nell's photo
Sat 01/05/08 08:25 AM
aaaawwwww grace:cry:

well nope no relationship as of yet but loads a kool friends :wink: :wink: :wink:

no photo
Sat 01/05/08 08:25 AM

Nope, everyone I message doesnt message me back


I had that same problem when I started here. Once I started posting a lot and people read what I wrote, they started writing to me. I think it's all about the exposure.

Godschosengirl's photo
Sat 01/05/08 08:35 AM
lots of friends... some possiblities... I did have a short relationship, but unfortunately it didn't workout.

TheCaptain's photo
Sat 01/05/08 08:35 AM
You got that right Lex........If you jump in and start having a good time in the forums, then people can see more about you, and will be more apt to either IM with you or return e-mails. Best of luck, and have a great time.

no photo
Sat 01/05/08 08:40 AM

You got that right Lex........If you jump in and start having a good time in the forums, then people can see more about you, and will be more apt to either IM with you or return e-mails. Best of luck, and have a great time.


What gets me is, we'll occasionally have some guy in Feedback, posting about "This site doesn't work for me!" three days after he joined, and this complaint is his only post. Like our members are psychic, and we're supposed to know he's here now, and all the girls are supposed to jump on him.

Deferred gratification is a lost art. Now where are my Pop-Tarts?

no photo
Sat 01/05/08 08:41 AM
Not me, and as far as I can tell, it won't happen on here, at least not for me. And that's fine.

Puffins1958's photo
Sat 01/05/08 08:41 AM
He knows how I feel about him...........

blushing flowerforyou love blushing

gracekelley's photo
Sat 01/05/08 08:42 AM

No luck yet, I know that I'm still new here but haven't even heard back from any emails. Is it normal for ppl to accept a friend request and not respond to emails or is it just me?


that happens with me too!

CaRisLOVE's photo
Sat 01/05/08 08:42 AM
some girls local message me back but arent straight up, but American girls really say alot
bigsmile

Godschosengirl's photo
Sat 01/05/08 08:49 AM


No luck yet, I know that I'm still new here but haven't even heard back from any emails. Is it normal for ppl to accept a friend request and not respond to emails or is it just me?


that happens with me too!


Yeah.. I have TONS of friends, and Mutual matchs.. but they usually don't email.:wink:

Godschosengirl's photo
Sat 01/05/08 08:49 AM

some girls local message me back but arent straight up, but American girls really say alot
bigsmile


huh huh huh

Fade2Black's photo
Sat 01/05/08 08:50 AM
Nope.

Fade2Black's photo
Sat 01/05/08 08:51 AM


You got that right Lex........If you jump in and start having a good time in the forums, then people can see more about you, and will be more apt to either IM with you or return e-mails. Best of luck, and have a great time.


What gets me is, we'll occasionally have some guy in Feedback, posting about "This site doesn't work for me!" three days after he joined, and this complaint is his only post. Like our members are psychic, and we're supposed to know he's here now, and all the girls are supposed to jump on him.

Deferred gratification is a lost art. Now where are my Pop-Tarts?


I've noticed same thing. SOOOO ridiculous. smokin

gracekelley's photo
Sat 01/05/08 08:54 AM
I wish I had someone I could feel about like that

Godschosengirl's photo
Sat 01/05/08 08:58 AM

I wish I had someone I could feel about like that



I'll be your friend Grace!! ( but I only date guys.LOL)flowerforyou

gracekelley's photo
Sat 01/05/08 09:00 AM


I wish I had someone I could feel about like that



I'll be your friend Grace!! ( but I only date guys.LOL)flowerforyou

Thats good because I only date guys too!

Fade2Black's photo
Sat 01/05/08 09:01 AM



No luck yet, I know that I'm still new here but haven't even heard back from any emails. Is it normal for ppl to accept a friend request and not respond to emails or is it just me?


that happens with me too!


Yeah.. I have TONS of friends, and Mutual matchs.. but they usually don't email.:wink:


ya .. same here - so many on mutual matches never even say hello .. how stupid is THAT? laugh

I just went thru my 80+ friends this morning and thought .. WHY? lol

Altho a lot of friends on my list are from another site before and we really ARE friends of the best kind. love

Godschosengirl's photo
Sat 01/05/08 09:01 AM
laugh laugh laugh laugh

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Sat 01/05/08 09:08 AM
Lots of people view me, even have several mutual matches but I don't here from them. That's disappointing. I've even email some acknowledging that they've viewed me and i don't hear from them after that.

As for the forums, sometimes i just don't have anything worthwhile to contribute. In that case, I just read and move on. I don't believe in a lot of the nonsense that goes on now.

I'm happy to see several people that I chatted with from several months ago are still alive and well on here. Good to see your posting. flowerforyou