Have been so many places but I couldn’t find love or true friendship.

I suggest that you start by putting some information in your profile. A profile that contains only one (although, admittedly, attractive) photo isn't going to interest anybody; too many scammers have empty profiles. In particular, you need to tell people about yourself and your interests. The more people can find common ground with you, the more likely they are to contact you.

In particular, many are interested in your religion and whether you want children.

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You need to completely fill out your profile. Whenever I see an empty profile I immediately think you are a scammer. If for some reason I don't think you are a scammer, I think you plan on molding yourself around me. In both cases, OMG no!

For this particular site, there are so many scammers on here. You need to make sure that people can determine that you are not a scammer.

In your profile you need to describe your personality. You need to talk about the things you like to do. What you want out of a relationship.

You should have a good head shot picture and a good body shot picture.

And, men like to be approached too, so try that too.