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Topic: JSH crushes
uk_bloke's photo
Sat 01/12/08 06:34 PM

its not like these crushes even mean anything u cant go out with someone who lives far frown


why not??

you are young, you have much to learn :smile:

ladyliz1417's photo
Sat 01/12/08 06:35 PM
my crushes do not know who they are & Im not telling

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Sat 01/12/08 06:35 PM
my crush is also young.. i doubt she wants to spend her life waiting to be with some guy who lives 8 hours away

uk_bloke's photo
Sat 01/12/08 06:37 PM

my crush is also young.. i doubt she wants to spend her life waiting to be with some guy who lives 8 hours away


ask yerself this... if you thought she was special, how long would you be prepared to spend waiting to be with that special someone??

and why should the other person's answer be different to your own?

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Sat 01/12/08 06:39 PM
Well I know I would wait for her because it's not like too many girls are heading my way locally. Her, i'm not too sure that her feelings are as strong as mine.

uk_bloke's photo
Sat 01/12/08 06:42 PM
Her, i'm not too sure that her feelings are as strong as mine.


2 things...
1. have you asked her?
2. if they aren't as strong as yours, then she aint the one for you anyway.

no photo
Sat 01/12/08 06:43 PM
Well she's posted in here many times and says she likes me a lot. She also talks to me everyday on AIM, but still i'm not sure she wants to date someone long distance or wait. I'm not sure if she's the one, but my feelings are pretty strong.

kaylas1515's photo
Sat 01/12/08 06:43 PM

its not like these crushes even mean anything u cant go out with someone who lives far frown

you say you cant go out with someone who lives far...but the thing you have to ask yourself is are you willing to relocate or are they maybe....see i am young...i am willing to relocate...i want to get out there see the world..or the united states i suppose...i guess i wouldnt be willing to locate over seas...but within the united states yes....i have nothing tieing me down in North Dakota....

uk_bloke's photo
Sat 01/12/08 06:48 PM

Well she's posted in here many times and says she likes me a lot. She also talks to me everyday on AIM, but still i'm not sure she wants to date someone long distance or wait. I'm not sure if she's the one, but my feelings are pretty strong.


well, dont you think you should ask her? find out? long distance relationships are not easy, thats true, but they can be a lot of fun!

(i dont mean to sound like im talking down to you at all, apologies if it comes across that way) you are both young! you have so much to learn about yourselves, as well as each other! The distance gives you both the space you need to do your own things. Go with the flow, give it a shot and see how it works out. :smile:

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Sat 01/12/08 06:50 PM
No I don't think you're talking down. I may ask her what she thinks soon. I really do like her quite a bit. I'm not sure her feelings on long distance I really don't like it, but for her I'd give it a shot.

uk_bloke's photo
Sat 01/12/08 06:50 PM


its not like these crushes even mean anything u cant go out with someone who lives far frown

you say you cant go out with someone who lives far...but the thing you have to ask yourself is are you willing to relocate or are they maybe....see i am young...i am willing to relocate...i want to get out there see the world..or the united states i suppose...i guess i wouldnt be willing to locate over seas...but within the united states yes....i have nothing tieing me down in North Dakota....


Hi Kaylas, yes, you should see the world! :smile: why limit yourself to the USA? modern planes are pretty quick you know! and whats to say that whatever your looking for in life is definitely going to be in the US?? The world is a big ol place, but not so big that we cant traverse it :smile:

kaylas1515's photo
Sat 01/12/08 06:53 PM



its not like these crushes even mean anything u cant go out with someone who lives far frown

you say you cant go out with someone who lives far...but the thing you have to ask yourself is are you willing to relocate or are they maybe....see i am young...i am willing to relocate...i want to get out there see the world..or the united states i suppose...i guess i wouldnt be willing to locate over seas...but within the united states yes....i have nothing tieing me down in North Dakota....


Hi Kaylas, yes, you should see the world! :smile: why limit yourself to the USA? modern planes are pretty quick you know! and whats to say that whatever your looking for in life is definitely going to be in the US?? The world is a big ol place, but not so big that we cant traverse it :smile:

I only limit myself to the US because i dont have the funds for worldwide and i need to be somewhat close to my family.....and i think i limit myself to the US because im afraid to go any farther....i know it is a big place....and i dont even know what im looking for in life...

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Sat 01/12/08 06:55 PM
Distance should be no barrier if you are serious,and I mean serious.And wise.

uk_bloke's photo
Sat 01/12/08 06:56 PM

Hi Kaylas, yes, you should see the world! :smile: why limit yourself to the USA? modern planes are pretty quick you know! and whats to say that whatever your looking for in life is definitely going to be in the US?? The world is a big ol place, but not so big that we cant traverse it :smile:

I only limit myself to the US because i dont have the funds for worldwide and i need to be somewhat close to my family.....and i think i limit myself to the US because im afraid to go any farther....i know it is a big place....and i dont even know what im looking for in life...


:smile: i dont think anyone truly knows what theyre looking for, until they suddenly realise they found it :smile:

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Sat 01/12/08 07:00 PM
I agree and I also think that you never realize what you had until it is gone.

kaylas1515's photo
Sat 01/12/08 07:00 PM


Hi Kaylas, yes, you should see the world! :smile: why limit yourself to the USA? modern planes are pretty quick you know! and whats to say that whatever your looking for in life is definitely going to be in the US?? The world is a big ol place, but not so big that we cant traverse it :smile:

I only limit myself to the US because i dont have the funds for worldwide and i need to be somewhat close to my family.....and i think i limit myself to the US because im afraid to go any farther....i know it is a big place....and i dont even know what im looking for in life...


:smile: i dont think anyone truly knows what theyre looking for, until they suddenly realise they found it :smile:

That is very true....but im not going to limit myself to finding someone close to me...because for all i know....the love of my life...could live 1000 miles away from me...but how will i ever know...and for all you know uk...we could be soulmates and not even know it...haha....im kidding btw

uk_bloke's photo
Sat 01/12/08 07:08 PM
sliding doors m'dear :smile:

ok u crazy kids... i hope i have in some way enhanced your lives, or at the very least, opened your minds a bit :smile:

i'm usually busy being sarcastic, but you two caught me on a good night!

gangsta, slow down, enjoy your life dont rush it away! Speak to your lady, find out if she would like to give it a shot. Dont be disheartened if she doesnt, after all, theres no point trying to make it work if one of you doesnt really want it to. But dont be in too much of a hurry :smile:

kaylas, i have great expectations for you, i dont know, its a vibe thing. you'll be just fine. Maybe the love of your life is 1000 miles away. maybe 10,000 miles away. Maybe, just maybe, he's just around the corner but you just dont know it yet :smile:

the birds are starting to sing over here which means its late!!! or early, depends how ya look at it... i gotta sleep...

ravensdarkness's photo
Sat 01/12/08 08:14 PM
yep i got a crush...but she is too far away :(

allinthedo's photo
Sat 01/12/08 08:22 PM
I dont know too many people yet! If I develop a crush sometime soon, I will let you all know!

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Sat 01/12/08 08:44 PM
I have the best crush ever love smooched

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