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Topic: intimidation
chuck366's photo
Thu 01/03/08 08:00 AM
I've been told I am intimidating constantly, why? I am just a reg guy. I'm interested in your opinions or expierences with this.

QwicherBytchin's photo
Thu 01/03/08 08:02 AM
That's a good question, Chuck. I get told the same thing also. I know I have a strong personality and I'm not afraid to speak my mind. But I also laugh a LOT, and I'm smiling most of the time.

Maybe you have a strong personality?

DebbieJT's photo
Thu 01/03/08 08:02 AM
i dint think you are ...you dont look it hun...ive have been by a couple of past boyfriends who were angry and wanted there own way...it wasnt a nice experience

no photo
Thu 01/03/08 08:03 AM
ive been called a lot worse..........you come on to strong to the ladies.......

chuck366's photo
Thu 01/03/08 08:03 AM
I am very confident but not cruel, ya know, I'm a loving kind man

Rosebud2669's photo
Thu 01/03/08 08:03 AM
Maybe people don't want to give you a chance to prove otherwise. You are a good looking guy maybe some people don't know how to deal with that.

no photo
Thu 01/03/08 08:04 AM
People who have alot of self confidence are some intimidating to some. That is why I have difficulty sometimes with dating. I prefer not to date than to be with someone who cannot be totally comfortable with who I am. En I am really NOT intimidating.

chuck366's photo
Thu 01/03/08 08:04 AM

ive been called a lot worse..........you come on to strong to the ladies.......


I don t come on strong , thats off base, usually they do and I run

no photo
Thu 01/03/08 08:04 AM
I guess it would depend on the context. From your pic, you don't look intimidating. Don't know you, though, so maybe you have a forceful, outspoken personality? That can be intimidating to some. flowerforyou

mry's photo
Thu 01/03/08 08:04 AM
You don't intimidate me...laugh

chuck366's photo
Thu 01/03/08 08:05 AM

Maybe people don't want to give you a chance to prove otherwise. You are a good looking guy maybe some people don't know how to deal with that.


Honestly I don t try to prove anything, I am who I am and am happy about it.

chuck366's photo
Thu 01/03/08 08:05 AM

Maybe people don't want to give you a chance to prove otherwise. You are a good looking guy maybe some people don't know how to deal with that.


Honestly I don t try to prove anything, I am who I am and am happy about it.

chuck366's photo
Thu 01/03/08 08:05 AM

You don't intimidate me...laugh


Not all but many

CaRisLOVE's photo
Thu 01/03/08 08:06 AM

I've been told I am intimidating constantly, why? I am just a reg guy. I'm interested in your opinions or expierences with this.


dats ok im also intimdiating by others
especially guys
laugh

chuck366's photo
Thu 01/03/08 08:06 AM

People who have alot of self confidence are some intimidating to some. That is why I have difficulty sometimes with dating. I prefer not to date than to be with someone who cannot be totally comfortable with who I am. En I am really NOT intimidating.


Thats how I feel at times, I am content being single though for many reasons

QwicherBytchin's photo
Thu 01/03/08 08:09 AM
I just love being invisible.

DebbieJT's photo
Thu 01/03/08 08:10 AM
i think intimadation comes in many forms...your probably not intimidating just have a strong presence...but people cant find the right words so they use that one...be true to yourself and change for no one ...my motto

kirota's photo
Thu 01/03/08 08:10 AM
Intimidating can be taken several ways. I have been called intimidating as well. I don't feel that I am either, but when I really look deep inside I can see a bit of that. I won't change who I am for anyone. I feel there are certain things that we can change and certain things that we can't. I guess the person that finds you is going to have to love you enough for the things that they can't change and help you with the things that you can. JMO

lissa_327's photo
Thu 01/03/08 08:10 AM
Chuck, I looked at your profile, I see nothing intimidating about you. How are you approaching ppl????

TxsGal3333's photo
Thu 01/03/08 08:11 AM
Humm can't say I have been on too many threads that you have been on you must stay in the sex and dating threads more lol. So guess I would not be a good judge of that. But what little I have read that you have said I did not see that but then what do I know. hehehehehlaugh laugh laugh bigsmile

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