I think before you start looking for a long-term partner, take some time to think about what you want the relationship to be like. What are your values, interests and goals? Knowing what you need can help you attract the right people. And be open. Don't limit yourself to a certain type of person or relationship. Be open to new people and things Finding a long-term partner is a journey, not a destination. By being open and taking your time, you can increase your chances of finding the right person for a long-term relationship.

Seems more like selling a product.

Plugging a "self help" book are we??

You are absolutely correct!

Some of us don't know at all what we want and because of this we get judgemental towards others. Just because you are not the best looking man or a woman doesn't meant that you are bad person...but just by making this hasty judgement we eliminate our chance for a friendship or more.