So it seems these days at the ripe young age of 33 that it’s really hard for decent hardworking men who are not just looking for sex to find semi decent attractive women, I think the issue is that these women are inundated with male attention that they feel they don’t have to do anything to get it so why bother… maybe I’m wrong… any thoughts ??

Semi descent ? What does that mean to you .

Hello and thanks (My opinion) Semi decent - “ a woman who you can go to the cinema with without having to worry if the guys in the popcorn queue have already been there… is her instagram full of replies to random men…if so I could never take her seriously… is she selling her nudes on only fans for £2.99 ? If so I would never be seen in public with her…. The society in which we all live in now has made it really hard especially in my case as a lot of stuff puts me off so I guess I’m just gonna go travelling and look for someone in search of themselves

Thanks for clarifying .

Do you think the reason you are having difficulty meeting women who live up to your expectations is that your profile sends a very different message .. .. you are posing in bed and looking for an intimate encounter . Perhaps the semi decent type of woman you seek is thinking the same about you …. wondering how many girls in the popcorn queue have already been there

Not judging you .. . it is more than okay to seek intimacy . However , how you market yourself online is important . If you truly want to meet someone with the same ethics and standards as you , consider if your profile reflects the man you are and the type of woman you want to attract .

Best of luck