If God (of any religion) is good in a perfect form, then we all fall short either more or less. All people have personality traits that can be more or less in nature. A person who says they “never” act like this or that only fools themselves.

If they have not acted that way, then who are they to say they never will. I think the hardest part of God's job is love. To love His lost people even though they may not always deserve that love. So many can use the word love, but when it comes to showing it lack an honest effort.

Love cannot be one-sided, this will never work. It's as a caregiver and care taker, one does all the work and gets wore out. In doing all the work they are more likely to do something wrong, will be scrutinized more as time goes on, and at times even made to seem wrong.

Yet they are the ones doing all the work, this so not right and unhealthy. In a nutshell we cannot get involved with those we feel sorry for, or those who only love themselves. Some say that a relationship is work, I say they are probably in the wrong relationship.

Love gives a person's energy a boost, helps them feel more confident, think more clearly, be more focused, more apt to shut out the “outside” interference's of the world. Love transcends time and space in that it does not matter what time or space between the love can still be felt, it is understood.

Would you ever ask a person whom truly love you if they were telling the truth? Well that solves one big problem, because people easily bend the truth or tell little white lies when pressured or whatever. So truth and love are closely linked.

We cannot trust a person whom does not trust themselves. If they are unsure of what they will say or do this should be evident in their mannerisms. Once trust is broken things begin to become on shaky ground and once a person has broken trust it is easier to do it again.

I think most relationships fail because the difference between men and women is not considered. Sure there are books, but does any of them really do just? I think it is more of a learn as you go type of thing.

It's important to make pacts as never lie, always punctual, dependable, optimistic, etc.. But it is also important to realize that a person is allowed to make mistakes and they more we help lessen the mistake the better things will be (if reciprocated).

So that is very roughly the basics, then the differences sorted out but respected. Difference likes, interests, different ways of doing things, different thinking, different up bringing-s. This all not easy to discuss without a misunderstanding at some point in time.

So misunderstandings will happen and it's best to always try to remain calm no matter what. If we have to help the other remain calm by saying this so be it. If two cannot remain calm they should separate and not mention the subject again till it can be done more rationally.

The time away should be spent trying to consider the others point of view and calming down. When either is upset they should have a physical release they like to do. Getting into something else some times clears the mind and brings solutions.

Oh my gosh, holds palm against lips, why did I even start this, I could write forever. Talks to himself, abort, abort, mind blowing abort the mission. Call this a few thoughts, LoL