Hi, I am pretty new to this site and I am frustrated about how this works. Not sure how I can change this. I am only interested in men between 58 and 70 and only people from Alberta less then 2 hours away from me, becauseI want o be able to meet in person, have specified that in my profile, but I get people from all over the world as matches and all younger then 58. What is the point of the specifications if it doesn't work?

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Vergi, the email specifications has nothing to do with who matches you only who can email you..

Regardless you can not choose who matches with you or like you... Anyone can see your profile and match or like you as well as send nudges with nudges you can block them once they have nudged you, but that is it.. Honestly putting on your profile about scammers does no good at all... At times that will only cause those that are legit to by pass a profile that is focused on fakes& scammers they see it as negative, I assure you those that are not legit do not even read profiles..

Honestly just ignore the Likes and Matches for they are always normally ones that live in ten buck two or never looked at your profile to see what your looking for or your age..

It is best just to set email distance which you have, that way only those that fit those specifications can actually email you. The ones that try will get a notice that they do not fit the members specifications in order to email them..

Welcome to the site, enjoy the forums.

Topic: Frustrating
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TxsGal3333
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Thu 05/26/22 04:40 PM
QUOTE:

Hi, I am pretty new to this site and I am frustrated about how this works. Not sure how I can change this. I am only interested in men between 58 and 70 and only people from Alberta less then 2 hours away from me, becauseI want o be able to meet in person, have specified that in my profile, but I get people from all over the world as matches and all younger then 58. What is the point of the specifications if it doesn't work?


Vergi, the email specifications has nothing to do with who matches you only who can email you..

Regardless you can not choose who matches with you or like you... Anyone can see your profile and match or like you as well as send nudges with nudges you can block them once they have nudged you, but that is it.. Honestly putting on your profile about scammers does no good at all... At times that will only cause those that are legit to by pass a profile that is focused on fakes& scammers they see it as negative, I assure you those that are not legit do not even read profiles..

Honestly just ignore the Likes and Matches for they are always normally ones that live in ten buck two or never looked at your profile to see what your looking for or your age..

It is best just to set email distance which you have, that way only those that fit those specifications can actually email you. The ones that try will get a notice that they do not fit the members specifications in order to email them..

Welcome to the site, enjoy the forums.

Thank you very much for your reply. That's the best explanation and advice I have received.
Take care

To limit the ages of who you see as potential matches, go to the site's free search feature,
and set minimum and maximum age limits,
as well as mileage limits.


Everyone, regardless of age, can still view
your profile.

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