Topic: Twin Bed
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Sun 12/30/07 06:06 PM

haha, I had a similar discussion last night

I have not only a twin bed, but a loft bed at that laugh

and ..... I'm 24 years old and live on my own laugh


Hey I remember that convo....hmmmmmm

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Sun 12/30/07 06:07 PM
yeah, I believe you might recall that one

do you mind my (bed) size? laugh

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Sun 12/30/07 06:08 PM


hey what's wrong with a Twin bed???huh grumble

Nothing wrong with a twin bed. As previously stated- I sleep on a couch. It's the guy living at home that is usually the disturbing part for me.




well what does a twin bed have to do with a guy living at home???y'all are freaking confusing the hell out of me!

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Sun 12/30/07 06:08 PM

yeah, I believe you might recall that one

do you mind my (bed) size? laugh


I think we talked about that as well....I like your (bed) size :wink:

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Sun 12/30/07 06:08 PM
just making sure laugh

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Sun 12/30/07 06:10 PM
We did it again, took over someone elses thread....flowerforyou

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Sun 12/30/07 06:10 PM


Some things are just beyond people's control


In some cases, yes.


But my point of view is simply this:
If I, as a single mom of 2, getting no help from the ex, can manage my life and support myself and provide a good living for myself and my children, then a single guy with NO dependents should be able to support himself too. All too many times do the guys run across the gold diggers and the girls run across the adult child scenario... my thinking is- I can take care of me and my own. You take care of you... THEN, if it works out, we know we are capable of taking care of each other.


Yes he should be able to. In my case the courts take so much of my money I have nothing and I really don't feel like selling crack on the corner at this point in time.

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Sun 12/30/07 06:10 PM
I'm a thread pirate! glasses

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Sun 12/30/07 06:12 PM
I'm thinkin' we should just make our own

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Sun 12/30/07 06:13 PM
I'm thinkin' we should just make....

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Sun 12/30/07 06:16 PM
Oh that sounds even better....laugh

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Sun 12/30/07 06:17 PM
I thought you'd enjoy :wink:

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Sun 12/30/07 06:20 PM
You know you love it!

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Sun 12/30/07 06:21 PM
Edited by singingmyheartout on Sun 12/30/07 06:21 PM
Well... here's another point to be made about living at home:

At the end of January, I am moving from Illinois to Arizona. My (future) mother-in-law is really sick (growth on her brain stem) and can't be left alone because she as mini-strokes at any given point "just because"... dad-in-law has to work to pay the bills and they are still coming up short. I am moving out there to help on the homefront, and the fiance (who is overseas in the Navy) is kicking in some cash towards rent and living expenses. I will be getting a job (opposite shift of Dad-in-law) to help with money once we get situated... BUT I am planning to live with my fiance's parents until he can transfer us to be with him after our wedding in March. The kicker is, he may be going to Iraq in the Fall... if that happens, my kids and I will be at the in-laws for at least a year.

Would you consider that imposing and mooching if we stay over a year, if we are helping financially and physically?

(For those who need to know prior to answering: I will have a queen size bed...bigsmile )

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Sun 12/30/07 06:29 PM
Depends do you still have the teddie bear on the pillow???

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Sun 12/30/07 06:30 PM
do you 2 want to be alone?????? or can We watch????bigsmile

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Sun 12/30/07 07:16 PM
HAHA...you can watch!

LOL


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Sun 12/30/07 07:20 PM
huh

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Sun 12/30/07 07:39 PM
Um I sleep on a California King and live on my own. We have to be equally yoked! Good guy or not, when can I come over? When mom and dad are away? Does company have to leave before midnight? WOW! laugh

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Sun 12/30/07 07:42 PM


Some things are just beyond people's control


In some cases, yes.


But my point of view is simply this:
If I, as a single mom of 2, getting no help from the ex, can manage my life and support myself and provide a good living for myself and my children, then a single guy with NO dependents should be able to support himself too. All too many times do the guys run across the gold diggers and the girls run across the adult child scenario... my thinking is- I can take care of me and my own. You take care of you... THEN, if it works out, we know we are capable of taking care of each other.


I second this. I have 2 children too and am able to hold down enough space for all of us so why shouldn't a man?