Topic: We cannot decide to love.
Chen InDigo's photo
Tue 10/26/21 07:18 PM

. “We cannot decide to love. We cannot compel anyone to love us. There's no secret recipe, only love itself. And we are at its mercy; there's nothing we can do.”
– Nina George

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Wed 10/27/21 12:20 AM
Welcome To Mingle2
All The Best :thumbsup:

Be Yourself,
First love yourself an think from others..
Love is just giving an spreading it..

.........:registered:

Laska Paul 's photo
Wed 10/27/21 12:31 AM


Did you know A butterfly lives only for 25 to 30 days , but still it flies joyfully capturing many Hearts . Every Moment of the Life is Precious, Dont worry, Be Happy . Great is the art of Beginning but Greater is the Art of Ending . This is not said by Nina George Its said by Me .
Happy Mingling .

Chen InDigo's photo
Wed 10/27/21 01:28 PM
There ain't no way you can hold onto something that wants to go, you understand? You can only love what you got while you got it.

Kate DiCamillo, Because of Winn-Dixie


Chen InDigo's photo
Wed 10/27/21 01:30 PM
I finally know the difference between pleasing and loving, obeying and respecting. It has taken me so many years to be okay with being different, and with being this alive, this intense. (xxvi)

Eve Ensler, I Am an Emotional Creature


Chen InDigo's photo
Wed 10/27/21 05:28 PM
I used to think that finding the right one was about the man having a list of certain qualities. If he has them, we'd be compatible and happy. Sort of a checkmark system that was a complete failure. But I found out that a healthy relationship isn't so much about sense of humor or intelligence or attractive. It's about avoiding partners with harmful traits and personality types. And then it's about being with a good person. A good person on his own, and a good person with you. Where the space between you feels uncomplicated and happy. A good relationship is where things just work. They work because, whatever the list of qualities, whatever the reason, you happen to be really, really good together.

Deb Calett


Bastet127's photo
Wed 10/27/21 05:59 PM

I used to think that finding the right one was about the man having a list of certain qualities. If he has them, we'd be compatible and happy. Sort of a checkmark system that was a complete failure. But I found out that a healthy relationship isn't so much about sense of humor or intelligence or attractive. It's about avoiding partners with harmful traits and personality types. And then it's about being with a good person. A good person on his own, and a good person with you. Where the space between you feels uncomplicated and happy. A good relationship is where things just work. They work because, whatever the list of qualities, whatever the reason, you happen to be really, really good together.

Deb Calett




“Where the space between you feels uncomplicated and happy.”
Spot on! :heart:

Mike6615's photo
Wed 10/27/21 06:49 PM
Lots of quotes, but they're just that--quotes. Please express the real you.

Chen InDigo's photo
Wed 10/27/21 07:21 PM
why is that a rule I thought I got to express anything I wanted

Chen InDigo's photo
Wed 10/27/21 07:21 PM
what have you contributed Mike

Chen InDigo's photo
Wed 10/27/21 07:22 PM
it's crazy but I can find ways to express the real me through quotations

Chen InDigo's photo
Wed 10/27/21 07:24 PM
by the way the topic was love and the subtitle was a quote