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Topic: Do imperfections matter to you ?
Beachfarmer's photo
Sat 10/09/21 07:11 AM
Edited by Beachfarmer on Sat 10/09/21 07:14 AM


Hi Beach! waving
Thank you for the compliment. I think. I guess it's me being Dutch and down to earth, plus I don't like political correctness. See too much of that around everywhere. I don't like in-authenticity.

I can certainly find myself in that quote!
Think Barbra Streisand... Tommy Flanagan... and the biggest example that moves me to tears as it's so sad... Jennifer Grey who was in Dirty Dancing. She had extensive plastic surgery done as she felt horribly ugly and insecure because of it. You wouldn't even recognise her anymore. And even though she's aesthetically pleasing to look at... she totally lost that unique beauty she still had in Dirty Dancing. She was gorgeous in imperfection.



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Perfect examples, especially Jennifer Grey. So prefer the "before picture"!

Along the same line: The Jacksons losing their relatabilty. Michael and LaToya are obvious. A bit more subtle. although undeniably still pretty, I think Janet was absolutely gorgeous in "Rhythm Nation" days with a more full nose and a little more weight.

Man Saudi's photo
Sat 10/09/21 07:19 AM
good

dust4fun's photo
Sat 10/09/21 08:55 AM
If the imperfection is small and I get a big enough discount on it I will always go with the bargain! As far as people imperfections make us who we are.

Tammy's photo
Sat 10/23/21 07:58 PM
I accept people for who they are. We are all not perfect and never will be. we are who we are.

no photo
Sun 10/31/21 12:27 PM

Let's do this imperfections, I love play my music loud at home, sometimes in my van my mirrors vibrant the rhythm, blues, Clapton, 85555itolder country the base is definitely fried up and kicking, I love wearing bright colors, neon hot pinks, light limes, oranges, water colored pants, leopard hats, and boots, honey both of my hips are REPLACED,AND my right knee, as for a man in a wheelchair, or one with a GENTLEMAN we can wheelchair dance, race for the van to see who's driving, if your a tattooie louie, I'll give you a run for your moolah lol


Hey! Them's pretty hot imperfections Coldersky. :smile:

Do the hips work good? :wink:

maybwecan's photo
Sun 10/31/21 12:45 PM
Edited by maybwecan on Sun 10/31/21 12:56 PM


Topic: Do imperfections matter to you ?



This topic suggests to me that someone knows what "perfection" is because I don't...perhaps there is somewhere an accepted/recognized definition of a "perfect" human body or "perfect" hair/nose/eyes/behaviour/ etc so that comparisons can be made...sigh...From experience I do know what many call "beauty" is in the eye of the beholder...

Brian's photo
Sun 10/31/21 01:23 PM
Depends what kind of imperfections we're talking about. If it's the kind that hinders our growth and development as a couple, then it's an obvious deal breaker. Otherwise, they can and should be tolerable as I have a fair share of my own.

sonofrangi's photo
Mon 11/01/21 04:46 AM
when you find that person...you will not care about imperfections nor will i :wink:

Coldersky's photo
Mon 11/01/21 08:54 AM
Thanks everyone I had to ask the tough question, some folks have mental, imperfections the ones you can't see some folks have physical imperfections beauty on the outside can be alot to be desired,I'm not here to judge or deal braker, or make fun of any of you because no ones PERFECT Coldersky minus the halo

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