It says in the FAQ that you can change your settings to include people you have said no to before but I've looked everywhere and haven't been able to find where I can do so. Does anyone know how to change it?

the mutual match is b.s. if u wanna talk 2 sum1 just email them n see what happens.
nice tats.

Thanks

I also attempted to find such a "reset" switch but there doesn't appear to be one currently. I am posting just because I am curious myself. As with all things- "To err is human, To forgive Divine" (to which I would amend) To truly foul things up; use a computer, it works every time.

i agree..i've gotten mutual matches to people i have no interest in dating..it is a joke..

hahahaha


that's a good one David


i don't care for that mutual match thing

cuz i don't know by looking at their picture or
reading their profile if they would be a good match

looks and first impressions can be so deceiving

i don't like to be put on the spot either
to make a quick judgement like that ...you know?

I feel that it often takes a long time to really
know if you feel a true connection with someone

i usually pass on that feature here
and any time i have participated in that ...
it has never been fruitful for me ,
in even finding a true friend

I've never gotten any mutual matches to people I didn't click "yes" or "maybe" to;^]

Guys, I moved this topic to the Help forum because we have been getting some questions about Mutual Match and I think it's better if we have them all in the same area.

Mike and I have discussed the need for a more definitive "instruction manual" for the Mutal Match, and he has told me he will be posting something addressing this in the near future.

Lex

Ok, if you are not interested in them then you hit the "no" button and you wont have a match. Its not the systems fault that you said yes or maybe. I like the system because you can no ahead of time whether or not they are interested in at least you messaging them.

hi can anyone tell what the crap is wrong with the mutulal match thing it says 11 people say they want to meet you ,and then its says to rate them ,then when you do the screen turns blue and says bad request 400 in a box you cant even rate them anybody?

Folger what OS and browser are you using??