The time has come,' the Walrus said,
To talk of many things:
Of shoes — and ships — and sealing-wax —
Of cabbages — and kings —
And why the sea is boiling hot —
And whether pigs have wings.'

-Lewis Carroll

Fairy Tales for girls use to teach them things. As with stories such as these, in time, allowed you to learn them. In the past the envierment was different so it was easier for most. The truth is that, "Things don't change, people do".

An example is Little Red Riding Hood. We as adults know that the Wolf is a Jeffrey Dommer type. To kids it's listen to your mom and don't be stupid. The monkeys and useful idiots have been breaking things with hammers for years. Which is part of the problem. Grimm is a video game that talks about this.

https://store.steampowered.com/app/252150/Grimm/
You can get the whole game on Steam. Sales also have it for %0% off and there's a demo too.

Cinderella/Prince Charming Complex is being in love with the idea of love. So they marry anyone and it turns out badly. There's many Princess Stories for a reason. Not everyone's the same and you need to figure out who's the best fit for you.

Fairy Tales are about getting girls to deal with their emotions and make good choices. At least good stories are designed to do so. Girls tend to learn more from reading about things then boys. Boys tend to learn more by doing. This doesn't remove the need for reading, seeing and doing (RSD) for all children. It's just a way of focusing for teaching.

https://youtu.be/00WCEbKM_SE

Walrus and the Carpenter - Disney's Alice in Wonderland

https://youtu.be/XOjXlIqoCyo

The Spider and the Fly by Mary Howitt and illustrated by Tony Diterlizzi