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Topic: best ways to learn to trust again
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Wed 12/26/07 08:25 AM
buddhism :smile:

BlueskyJ's photo
Wed 12/26/07 09:09 AM
SuzinVA...has got it....

AllSmiles....has got it...

oldsage....has got it...

maybe we all get it....I try to 'build bridges of trust'...And then we can come over to each others side of the bridge....

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Wed 12/26/07 09:17 AM

Bro listen. Once a cheater always a cheater. Try as you may to believe you can change someone. You cant. Let it go and try again. There are too many good girls out there to waste time trying to fix the bad ones. Same for the guys as well

VERY TRUE DUDE...drinker

The one percent that see their fault and DO CHANGE,,are RARE!

And THAT CHANGE is NOT over night.

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Wed 12/26/07 09:19 AM


The only words of wisdom I have is give it time. Time to deal with your hurt and anger and then, when you do meet someone, take your time in the relationship, don't jump in head first. But, don't give up on trust either, just keep reminding yourself that not everyone will do that to you. Whatever you do, though, wait to get involved until you're sure you've fully dealt with your feelings. It's not fair to you or anyone else to take past relationships out on another person. flowerforyou flowerforyou
I agree!!!!!


I also AGREE FULLY!:heart: flowerforyou drinker

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Thu 12/27/07 06:38 PM
Trust is something that has to be earned. I am just learning this myself. Also think about it as putting your life into someone elses hands. A heart is a very fragil thing and should never be taken lightly. Be honest straight out about your feelings but also use some wisdom.

trueokie2's photo
Thu 12/27/07 06:42 PM
oh yeah and never give up..flowerforyou

Jtevans's photo
Thu 12/27/07 07:01 PM
trip yourself and see if they actually try to catch you.if they don't and you hit the ground,push them down once you get back up and then walk away

Nervesgone's photo
Thu 12/27/07 07:21 PM
I ain't changing, If I tell you I will, don't beleive me!!!!laugh laugh laugh drinker

MsTeddyBear2u's photo
Thu 12/27/07 07:24 PM
Nerves I don't think I can trust you... ohwell laugh

Trust is a learned and earned thing I think...
I just have to learn to trust the person who earns it... :wink:

s1owhand's photo
Thu 12/27/07 07:39 PM
i extend trust immediately and completely until that trust is betrayed. then i go cautiously still trying not to blame. i will extend the trust a couple more times. then i give up.

"if at first you don't succeed, try try again. then give up. no use making a damn fool out of yourself!" laugh

-W. C. Fields

Nervesgone's photo
Thu 12/27/07 07:47 PM

Nerves I don't think I can trust you...
ohwell laugh

Trust is a learned and earned thing I think...
I just have to learn to trust the person who earns it... :wink:



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MsTeddyBear2u's photo
Thu 12/27/07 08:04 PM
(((Nerves))) flowerforyou

Don't cry... Heres a hankie...

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Thu 12/27/07 08:08 PM
Edited by ukusa on Thu 12/27/07 08:09 PM
I hate to say it, but in my opinion . . the key to a successful relationship is to be comfortable with ALL your feelings.

Trust your gut feeling . .I find mine NEVER lets me down and thats how I know to trust :)

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