I've been interested in becoming a sugar baby to someone for the past few years but only recently started actively searching online and having trouble just finding a real person to meet. Any advice? Or takers?

Gainful employment offers more dignity.

What Rock said. Don't be lazy and expect life to be handed to you. You know what happens to people like that, don't you?

People get fed up of hearing this , it’s bought up many times on here .
My advice is support yourself don’t rely on someone else to support you , you are a grown man so act like one .
It seriously grinds my gears

I dont rely on the money part, however, I do think it's a nice perk. I'm currently working, just wanted to explore dating older women too I guess.

Pffffft. Dating older women suggest you will pay your own way. Nothing like being a sugar baby.

I've been considering being president of the world for the past few years.

I always think it's funny the mindset of so many people that participate in "online dating."

They come up with some unrealistic relationship pretty much focused on their own benefit, having rationalized the "cost" being "I'm a good person, it's not about looks, you should accept me and my past and baggage."


Lots of people come up with "I've been interested in..."
But it's almost rare as unicorns to read "I've been interested in...and this is what I realistically think I am and have to offer, and proof/training, that would actually be what they want."

So:

Realistically speaking, how many people actually exist that fulfill the requirements that put them in a position to be what you want?
You want them to be attractive? Do you care about age? How much sugar/benefits are you actually looking for? Them to pay a random phone bill? Pay your rent? Take you on trips? Finance your life, business ideas?

Why would someone want you to be their sugar baby?
You have competition. Lots of people want to be sugar babies.
What do you have to offer based on what they want that makes you more attractive, desirable, and convenient, than everyone else that wants the same things you do?

Not to mention, do you honestly believe that someone with the resources to fulfill the obligations and role of "sugar daddy/mommy" is really going to be sitting around thinking "Hmmm, I have all this money but I'm so lonely, no one wants to take my money. I guess I have to go to a random free online dating site and just hope that a random stranger is willing to spend time with me."

Amen

It's okay then, if the "taker" is another male?

Oh I know this one....................you paint yourself orange and with Russia's help become president!

Next chapter - Start you own cult of morons.

There are some rules to become my wee sugar baby.

Wake up at 5 am to walk the cat.

Be back by 6 am to make me breakfast, I like you to cook naked btw.

When I shower, clean the kitchen before I come out for a kiss goodbye.

Your day will be spent cleaning the house, keeping the swimming pool pristine and doing the gardening, shopping and my errands.

Dinner is to be on the table at 6 pm, I will phone you during the day to tell you what I want to eat.

In the evenings I like to go out alone. No sulking is permitted.

I can't wait to meet you sugar baby xxx

Kind of sounds like having a slave....

A common fantasy that rarely becomes a reality, keep dreaming ,try volunteering in an old folks home to boost your chances of meeting older women

sound similar to what I want.


however i would want her to sing and dance for me while i am eating. I would also want her to dress me, wash me, and clip my nails while I am in the shower while she is naked. While i am watching my dr who marathon i want her to be feeding me grapes, and popcorn with her mouth.

I would prefer a hot girl who will take care of my house, shower with me, drive me everywhere, and accompany me on trips, have adult workouts three times a day, play videogames with me all for 300 a month plus room and board if she is living with me. preferably she would live in South East Asia, Latin America, Eastern Europe, or the Middle East.

I had a shower about 4 hours ago but for some reason I feel like another now

If you want to become a Sugar Baby, then you need to acquire a wrapper that you can fit completely into.



You will also have to wear a coat made entirely out of candy.

am .not looking for a sugar girl or mom I am grown so I found that I have to spend. mean

just looking for true love

Define what you mean by ‘older woman’ cos if any young men message me there’s only one button pressed ...... BLOCK!!!

I love Old men!