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can understand that fear of committing. i tend to not let people close to me either. im friendly, fun, etc...but when i sense them closing in closer to my wall, i baracade it. that isnt a good thing either, we could be missing out on something special. I'm the same way...People tell me how fun I am and how wonderful everything is...until those 3 words come out...then I panic and make up excuses on why I can't be in a relationship...and honestly, I have no idea why I am that way...maybe I need a therapist...haha I have that same problem i don't think it's something wrong it's you just don't want to hear it or say it untill your sure. I hear people say it all the time without meaning...I just like things to go slow...not lets meet, talk for a week and then make plans to get married! Would you guys get married...or married again? |
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i dont even want to say or hear it when im sure lol. would i get married again....oh lord, i dont know really. if i could fine one 107, blind, deaf, cant speak, and rich as hell....maybe lol im kidding
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can understand that fear of committing. i tend to not let people close to me either. im friendly, fun, etc...but when i sense them closing in closer to my wall, i baracade it. that isnt a good thing either, we could be missing out on something special. I'm the same way...People tell me how fun I am and how wonderful everything is...until those 3 words come out...then I panic and make up excuses on why I can't be in a relationship...and honestly, I have no idea why I am that way...maybe I need a therapist...haha I have that same problem i don't think it's something wrong it's you just don't want to hear it or say it untill your sure. I hear people say it all the time without meaning...I just like things to go slow...not lets meet, talk for a week and then make plans to get married! Would you guys get married...or married again? Only if i met the right girl, the last relationship i was in she was getting like that after only a few date's, scared the heck out of me. i want to settele down but i don't want to rush things |
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I will be back in 5 minutes....lol
keep on postin away |
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I'm scared of marriage, only because I've seen how drastically people can change over the course of a few years.
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very true most people that i know that have had a marriage work knew each other for several years before hand
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yup, no reason to get in any hurry as far as I'm concerned
I always joke with people that none of my friend's have gotten married that weren't pregnant first... but it's the truth ![]() |
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i think it is so awesome when i see a little old couple holding hands or cuddling. i do know couple who have been together a long time. my ex's parents just celebrated their 75th anniversay...now that is something!
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my great great aunt and uncle are at like 77 or 78 years now... she's like 95 years old and he's a year or 2 younger
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my grandparents and parents are the same.
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Edited by
MZKat
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Tue 12/25/07 04:58 PM
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Ok I am back...
So what is it about the opposite sex do you guys find annoying? |
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That's a tough question... because everyone is different.
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I can't stand guys that brag about themselves...
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Ok I am back... So what is it about the opposite sex do you guys find annoying? just if the person is inmature. |
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I can't stand girls with major attitude... or immaturity is another good one...
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I agree...maturity plays a big role!
What is your ideal relationship that you seek? |
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What is your ideal relationship that you seek? Happiness with someone I'm proud to have around every day ![]() |
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Does distance play a factor?
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Well... preferably they would be local... my only serious relationship went down the tubes due primarily to distance...
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I agree...maturity plays a big role! What is your ideal relationship that you seek? Some one that i can connect with and that knows that both people in a relationship there is give and take on both side's |
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