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Topic: bad manners!! not to reply
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Sun 12/23/07 09:41 AM
why is there so many bad mannered people in this world? if someone has gone to the trouble to stop and say hi, why cant you find it in your heart to reply??even if its a dear john, we are grown ups and can take rejection!! i just think you are big heads, posers and love yourselves...i try to keep away from that type but it just proves that you cant believe what their profile says!!``genuine, caring,truthful`` etc!! what a load of bull....and they cant reply?? hmmmmmmmmmm makes you wonder!!

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Sun 12/23/07 09:43 AM
I always send replies, but I very rarely get e-mails laugh

It happens to the best of us and we all hate it...

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Sun 12/23/07 09:45 AM
dont get me wrong i generally always get replies but theres always a couple.i just hate bad manners..it cost nothing!! i know there not all bad..im chatting to some lovely people and always find time to reply even if im just in from work or if im on my way to work.

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Sun 12/23/07 09:47 AM

why is there so many bad mannered people in this world? if someone has gone to the trouble to stop and say hi, why cant you find it in your heart to reply??even if its a dear john, we are grown ups and can take rejection!! i just think you are big heads, posers and love yourselves...i try to keep away from that type but it just proves that you cant believe what their profile says!!``genuine, caring,truthful`` etc!! what a load of bull....and they cant reply?? hmmmmmmmmmm makes you wonder!!


That's all too common here. I gave up on writing to anybody first after I tried contacting some of the local people and got NO replies. After a year here, and 6000+ posts, I now get tons of e-mails, mainly from people who read something I said in the forums, or who looked at my profile; but I still won't write to anyone first. If they want to talk to me, they can send the initial note! But I always reply to everyone (unless it's a scammer, a spammer, or a troll).




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Sun 12/23/07 09:47 AM
Hi! Must agree with you on that ! I had been thinking it was only the ladies that done that, People who take the time to write to me will always get a reply....even if I don't like them to much.

Happy Christmas

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Sun 12/23/07 09:47 AM
Well you're doing better than me, maybe one in every 20 e-mails sent get replied too. laugh laugh

But I have met some cool people so far, taking to good with the bad!

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Sun 12/23/07 09:48 AM
I have the same thing happen, they view your profile then trash the email. This place is so like High School sometimes.

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Sun 12/23/07 09:49 AM


why is there so many bad mannered people in this world? if someone has gone to the trouble to stop and say hi, why cant you find it in your heart to reply??even if its a dear john, we are grown ups and can take rejection!! i just think you are big heads, posers and love yourselves...i try to keep away from that type but it just proves that you cant believe what their profile says!!``genuine, caring,truthful`` etc!! what a load of bull....and they cant reply?? hmmmmmmmmmm makes you wonder!!


That's all too common here. I gave up on writing to anybody first after I tried contacting some of the local people and got NO replies. After a year here, and 6000+ posts, I now get tons of e-mails, mainly from people who read something I said in the forums, or who looked at my profile; but I still won't write to anyone first. If they want to talk to me, they can send the initial note! But I always reply to everyone (unless it's a scammer, a spammer, or a troll).







Hey Lex, what about the Llama? i thought you always replied to the Llama as well?

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Sun 12/23/07 09:50 AM
People are supericial...there is no avoiding it, it is human nature to do so....just that some are much worse than others.

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Sun 12/23/07 09:50 AM
maybe the rude people in question mite read these forums and change their ways...mite learn a thing or two!!

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Sun 12/23/07 09:50 AM

maybe the rude people in question mite read these forums and change their ways...mite learn a thing or two!!


Lol! Way to stay optimistic!

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Sun 12/23/07 09:51 AM
I always answer my emails. I sent 1 to someone who looked at my profile 1 time. Her profile said she answers all her e-mails. .............. she don't grumble grumble

I guess that makes her a liar ......... Don't deal w/liars at all. mad


glasses

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Sun 12/23/07 09:52 AM

I have the same thing happen, they view your profile then trash the email. This place is so like High School sometimes.


Can't 100% agree on that!......I made out much better at High School laugh laugh

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Sun 12/23/07 09:52 AM
BUM HOLES to them thats what i say!!! their lost lollaugh

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Sun 12/23/07 09:52 AM

Hey Lex, what about the Llama? i thought you always replied to the Llama as well?


Daniel, it's not the same, since I have to write all his e-mails for him. He's a horrible typist....

And then when I write him back, he just stands there claiming not to know how Mutual Match works....

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Sun 12/23/07 09:54 AM
lol

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Sun 12/23/07 09:55 AM

I always answer my emails. I sent 1 to someone who looked at my profile 1 time. Her profile said she answers all her e-mails. .............. she don't grumble grumble

I guess that makes her a liar ......... Don't deal w/liars at all. mad


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It could be entertaining to call her out on that and frustrate her.

:tongue:

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Sun 12/23/07 09:56 AM

maybe the rude people in question mite read these forums and change their ways...mite learn a thing or two!!
NO they won't learn. Because they think this is an instant dating site and they don't read the forums.

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Sun 12/23/07 09:58 AM
i don't expect anyone to email me--but if they do-i reply in a nice manner way--


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Sun 12/23/07 10:01 AM


maybe the rude people in question mite read these forums and change their ways...mite learn a thing or two!!
NO they won't learn. Because they think this is an instant dating site and they don't read the forums.


¿Why is that?

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