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Topic: Where are the real and serious men, 40 yo + ?
Imani Joined Wed 08/12/20 Posts: 2	Thu 08/13/20 02:46 PM
I'm a few days old on the site & all I'm getting is the robotic Hi in my inbox from younger men even after clearly stating I'm only willing to date 40+ So, I'm here asking; where are the 40+ men? The ones who are ready and raring to go for the long haul? I've honestly filled my profile and feel free to (AMA) ask me anything. I'm an open book. Only the serious ones, hit me up. Let's get on to writing our success story. Love, Imani from Nairobi Kenya

Unknow Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 41170	Thu 08/13/20 03:20 PM
I'm real but almost never serious. Sorry. Good luck!

NotPay4Play Joined Fri 06/24/16 Posts: 5336	Thu 08/13/20 03:41 PM
Welcome to the asylum known as mingle. I wish you the best of luck here. Yup real here too. But serious nah that's too much of a drag.

maybwecan Joined Sun 09/23/12 Posts: 15804	Thu 08/13/20 03:57 PM
I'm a few days old on the site & all I'm getting is the robotic Hi in my inbox from younger men even after clearly stating I'm only willing to date 40+ So, I'm here asking; where are the 40+ men? The ones who are ready and raring to go for the long haul? I've honestly filled my profile and feel free to (AMA) ask me anything. I'm an open book. Only the serious ones, hit me up. Let's get on to writing our success story. Love, Imani from Nairobi Kenya Suggest you place filters on your profile to screen out messages from those not satisfying the filter Also use the free search engine to find potential matches

Blondey111 Joined Sun 01/27/13 Posts: 9012	Thu 08/13/20 04:59 PM
Hello imani there is nothing stopping you from viewing who is online and sending a message to men who meet your criteria . Dating success is not instantaneous ., there are many who have been searching for years

Rock Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 21258	Thu 08/13/20 05:51 PM
Life is too short to be taken seriously..

feelyoungagain Joined Wed 02/28/18 Posts: 444	Thu 08/13/20 06:00 PM
I'm a few days old on the site & all I'm getting is the robotic Hi in my inbox from younger men even after clearly stating I'm only willing to date 40+ So, I'm here asking; where are the 40+ men? The ones who are ready and raring to go for the long haul? I've honestly filled my profile and feel free to (AMA) ask me anything. I'm an open book. Only the serious ones, hit me up. Let's get on to writing our success story. Love, Imani from Nairobi Kenya Hey. Have you tried setting whom can contact you? If not, click on your profile picture and then click on "SETTING." After that, click on "Limit Who Can Send You Mail." Ta-da! Hope it works :)

Sagittarius 1972 Joined Fri 08/14/20 Posts: 1	Fri 08/14/20 10:13 AM
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AmaninNB Joined Thu 07/09/20 Posts: 2	Sun 08/16/20 01:02 AM
Im 30 but looking for serious :D

feelyoungagain Joined Wed 02/28/18 Posts: 444	Sun 08/16/20 03:35 PM
I'm a few days old on the site & all I'm getting is the robotic Hi in my inbox from younger men even after clearly stating I'm only willing to date 40+ So, I'm here asking; where are the 40+ men? The ones who are ready and raring to go for the long haul? I've honestly filled my profile and feel free to (AMA) ask me anything. I'm an open book. Only the serious ones, hit me up. Let's get on to writing our success story. Love, Imani from Nairobi Kenya Maybe try using the search option.

SpaceCodet Joined Sat 07/27/19 Posts: 632	Mon 08/17/20 01:42 AM
There's lots of sites on the net. People bonce around from one to another. I wasted three years and to much cash on that. I stayed here because the forums have a decent amount to read along with people who post.But that's up to you if you want to take the time and go through the profiles and wait for new people to sign up. You have to doing the work by going through profiles and sending messages too. All the best.

Ansari Joined Tue 03/19/19 Posts: 2	Mon 08/17/20 09:17 PM
hello,