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Topic: I'm in tears
Roy's photo
Sat 06/13/20 04:00 PM
what's with this site? nobody answers messages

moomin's photo
Sat 06/13/20 10:45 PM
Nothing is wrong with the site .
No answer to messages usually means the person is not interested ,

Also not everyone is on here constantly

Rock's photo
Sat 06/13/20 10:55 PM
Less whining might help your cause.

maybwecan's photo
Sat 06/13/20 11:48 PM
if your profile was a job resume, it would not go far...

Profile is skimpy but it may get you by from those who are not looking for a profile that is more substantial. Suggest you expand on the interests and write up. Tell more about yourself and the type of person you are looking for. And more photos would be a benefit.

uniquelydifferent's photo
Sun 06/14/20 01:48 AM
If you messaged me and I went to your profile, instead of reading an interesting few lines about you I get to read, "lots a fake profiles that want you to go to porn sites or want your email to sent you porn sites or connect to hangouts for something weird". And really, your only interest is having children of your own.

Remind me to add all this to my list for 'Some Things That Put you Off when Looking at Profiles that's in the forums here somewhere.

Sadiqa's photo
Sun 06/14/20 05:28 AM
So very true. Some ppl dont know how to spell real. Their insecurities prevent them from being true and honest :blush:

Freebird Deluxe's photo
Sun 06/14/20 08:19 AM
Give it a few years

delightfulillusion's photo
Sun 06/14/20 08:35 AM
If I received a message from you, I wouldn’t answer either because your profile tells me absolutely nothing about you. How am I expected to know if we had things in common when you have no interests listed?

What little you have written just tells me nothing about you but only that you are a negative person. A profile is meant to attract not chase people off.

Also, you have not answered some of the basic questions nor written anything about the type of person you’re seeking.

For all the reasons above, I would bypass your profile and move on to the next.

Poetrywriter's photo
Sun 06/14/20 09:29 AM
Get over yourself. Your profile is no prize. The write up is negative and your interests is basically non existent. If you do not redo your profile you will continue to have no luck in getting the message responses you look for.

Roy's photo
Sun 06/14/20 02:20 PM

if your profile was a job resume, it would not go far...

Profile is skimpy but it may get you by from those who are not looking for a profile that is more substantial. Suggest you expand on the interests and write up. Tell more about yourself and the type of person you are looking for. And more photos would be a benefit.


oh yeah? sounds good... I still suck at this for now

Roy's photo
Sun 06/14/20 02:22 PM

Give it a few years



that'll take too long sad

Roy's photo
Sun 06/14/20 02:24 PM
at least there is actual people here :smile: any tips for a newbie at this think

Fraser's photo
Sun 06/14/20 02:46 PM
I always felt there should be 2 boxes for a reply A Sorry not interested and B Exterminate.
I put that on one message and the reply was "Could not find the boxes but it would have been B".
For me negative response would be more appreciated than nothing.




no photo
Sun 06/14/20 03:29 PM

at least there is actual people here :smile: any tips for a newbie at this think



Don't cry.

moomin's photo
Sun 06/14/20 04:13 PM


at least there is actual people here :smile: any tips for a newbie at this think



Don't cry.

:joy::joy::joy::joy::joy:

Roy's photo
Sun 06/14/20 04:49 PM



at least there is actual people here :smile: any tips for a newbie at this think



Don't cry.

:joy::joy::joy::joy::joy:


:cry: sad OK thanks for the tip

Roy's photo
Sun 06/14/20 04:50 PM
then at least you know something
:wink: :thumbsup:

byron69's photo
Thu 06/18/20 02:10 AM
true

Sir Dino One Love ☝️💚's photo
Thu 06/18/20 02:21 AM

Less whining might help your cause.


Sharp..laugh

Cutiepieforyou's photo
Thu 06/18/20 11:54 AM
It most probably means the person is not interested.

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