This stuff is weird. Is this for real?

I cannot believe this thread. Not that the guy is asking for help, and a little bit of advice, because that is what we do as a group, as family. Like it or not, the longer you stay on JSH, the closer that you get to people. But the callousness, rude, petty comments that are directed to this poor guy. It is clear that he has some problems, but who doesn't? What makes you so perfect that you can sit there and be this mean and cold to someone?



I am so sorry for what you are going through. I do hope that you find a way to make things better for yourself. I wish you all the best.

if you don't learn to accept other people, they won't accept you.
others will accept you for who you are if you wholeheartedly accept them first.
and don't let that pain period make you give up.

okay i have a solution.... you should let me run the pagan group

Maja's group?

where's the sign up sheet???

oh wait, youre talking about the pagan group, not the S&M group. nvm

nooo it's the m+mgroup

...candy? lol

I wasnt trying to be mean.I just don't know what to make of what this guy is saying.

firstly your in the USA so you can't run one in the UK, second, my parents have been running it since before i was born so ...

take it as a thread started by someone that genuinely wants some advise & help on this issue.

I already did offer advice. You need to stop!

Think about it.. Anyone else involved (real or otherwise) is completely out of your control. The only control you have is within you. What you are doing is unhealthy. STOP IT! Do whatever you need to do towards that end.

It is just that simple. Only you can make the choice.

You can continue to offer more glib responses and ask more empty questions.. But as callous as some of us seem to be? There is a message in there for ya! Take it. Use it. Do what you need to do.

Jistme if i where to solve the problem by the only way i can think of the population of aberystwyth would drop rapidly. there must be a better way, I'm asking what that better way is.

As I suspected...People who talk like that, want attention. Some will go to drastic measures to get it too! Are you one of those? Should one of us reading this be calling somebody?

You will get attention that way... just probably not what you had in mind.

I'd have to say though.. any aspirations of meeting a special someone on this site? Probably not. Unless they really are 'special'.. Again, not in the way you had in mind.

i think what jistme is saying is that YOU are responsible for YOU. YOUR reactions, your feelings...your emotions...they are all under YOUR control.

no one can MAKE you feel anything, only YOU can.

take responsibility for yourself and be who YOU want to be.

so lulu24 if someone was running you down in a car you think you could stop your self from being angry & annoyed?

Jistme STFU, you don't know what the heck your talking about so don't talk.

HEY

get rid of your external locus of control and adopt an internal locus of control

you'll be a lot happier

and stop ignoring what i said before

cuz i basically gave u the answer

oh and merry xmas!

Hi gigm!

It seems here that you are asking for help, getting responses, but they are not the responses that you want to hear. We can not help you if you do not really want help.

And as for you saying that your problem is a little bit of real life and internet games together, I'm not sure there is a solution to the problem except to seperate the fiction from the non-fiction.

I'm just really confused right now... too much to process too late at night!

yes, actually...i certainly can.

you're more liable to be hurt if you're angry...

that doesn't mean i wouldn't, you know, get the heck out of the way. and i'd take responsibility for THAT, as well...getting out of the way. and then i'd make sure i wasn't walking in the middle of the street.

Gigm
you have posted 184 times in in those 184 times you have said you have people throwing rocks at you,trying to run you down,spreading rumors about you,your parents are going to divorce because your mother got robbed of thousands of dollars because she gave someone her credit card numbers,talking about how you cant sleep cause you imagine aliens sticking their claws through your head or robbers breaking in and killing you.and now your parents run a local pagen group and an S&M leader wants to join.
Oh and dont forget your a diabetic,and you still live with your parents.

I really think you need to see a professional and get some help,so you can figure out whats real and whats fantasy.

No one can be this unlucky in life.

I'm starting to see a pattern here. Or is there more?

. And then gigm you got on this website and asked very personal information from strangers and when they blew you off you started with these incredible unbelievable questions. And you turned defensive and stubborn when people replied to you. Please see a licensed physician. We can't help you. And good luck.