Can someone please tell me the reason cause good people always meet bad people

Hello James .. I would say that is a generalisation . Good and bad is subjective and contextual . Ultimately .. even if it seems you attract “bad” people . The choice as to what happens next is yours .

Perhaps share why they are “bad” .. that may give some more insight .....where are you meeting them??? . not on mingle surely

Hi James,

Welcome to Mingle!
I have to agree with Blondey, that is a generalization.
I feel I meet all kinds of people everywhere.... Great people, not so great & everywhere in between.
It is up to the individual who they choose to associate and be friends with. I personally can say I tend to choose to be around people who enjoy each others company and share common interests with.
If you feel you only attract "bad" people, you may want to consider where you have been looking.....

Best of luck in your search!

Which are you, James? The good or the bad.

I am one of the good ones and most of the people I meet are good ones too.
Therefore, I don't agree with your generalization.

Welcome to Mingle2

I like this

put some fresh tomatoes with some rotten tomatoes in the same basket & try to prevent them from meeting each other, then repeat your question

Because it's a choice that people make.

tired to find true love sometime you mind that be alone will be the best solution for cause perhaps God create you like this

cause there a lot of catfish

Welcome to M2 forums.


All love is true or it isn't love at all.

As for the nature of the people you choose to associate with, you must first know yourself.

By "bad" I am assuming you don't mean abusers, rapists and murderers, merely 'bad' as in not right for you.

I suggest you do some honest self-reflection to figure out where your polarity aligns. Most people's personalities align with three basic classifications.
Good, Neutral & Evil
Each classification can then be split into three levels of preference.
Lawful, Neutral & Chaotic

While a person can have tendencies which touch each level of each class most people have stronger alignment with one over all others.
This alignment system is best explained by the old Dungeons & Dragons RPG character alignment system.
http://easydamus.com/alignment.html
Lawful Good, "Crusader"
Neutral Good, "Benefactor"
Chaotic Good, "Rebel"
Lawful Neutral, "Judge"
Neutral, "Undecided"
Chaotic Neutral, "Free Spirit"
Lawful Evil, "Dominator"
Neutral Evil, "Malefactor"
Chaotic Evil, "Destroyer"



In addition to understanding your own and others personality alignment one must have learned wisdom in dealing with the decision making process.

If you are consistently making the same mistakes over and over again you are not using the wisdom your experiences are trying to teach you.
Failure to use the wisdom you learn dooms you to forever repeat your mistakes.

You can try to blame others but ultimately it is your own life and if you are not in charge of it you will not live the life you want.
Just because you accept others as they are doesn't mean you must share your life with them.
You have to make an effort to fill your life with those you want to be around.
Its always going to be your choice.
Choose Wisely.

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