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Topic: A Scientific Reason To Take Relationships Slow
Turtlepoet78's photo
Fri 12/21/07 06:52 AM
Speed + Mass = Gravity

Let's take our time & not crush eachother;^]laugh laugh laugh

peachiegirl28's photo
Fri 12/21/07 07:02 AM
laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh
good pointflowerforyou

alright_guy_65's photo
Fri 12/21/07 07:07 AM
beer + beer = beergoggles

stevenpwis's photo
Fri 12/21/07 07:07 AM
definitely good point...huh?

Turtlepoet78's photo
Fri 12/21/07 07:30 AM
Thanks, I definatly do think it's true for relationships. I've seen too many friends weighted down into unhappy marriages because they rushed into it so quick, even sadder some have left their marriage only to rush into another unhappy marriage. I know one guy, 39 years old & on his 9th marriage, all because he's in such a hurry to let someone else make him "happy". Pretty ironic I think..lol;^]

peachiegirl28's photo
Fri 12/21/07 07:32 AM
thats sad....i would rather be single than to be in an unhappy miserable relationship....im too happy to let someone else bring me downbigsmile

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Fri 12/21/07 07:32 AM
Edited by peachiegirl28 on Fri 12/21/07 07:32 AM

beer + beer = beergoggles


beer+beer+beergoggles=beer sleddinglaugh

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Fri 12/21/07 07:34 AM
life-relationship=happy

heatherrae's photo
Fri 12/21/07 07:36 AM
friends dont let friends beer goggle.

Turtlepoet78's photo
Fri 12/21/07 07:38 AM

life-relationship=happy


Have to disagree there, doesn't have to be the traditional "partner" relationship, but life- relationship = Isolation and loneliness. The relationship I have with my true family is priceless;^]

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Fri 12/21/07 07:41 AM
i meant romance relationships. Obviously in life you need a family and friends.

Turtlepoet78's photo
Fri 12/21/07 07:42 AM
True that, to each their own;^]

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Fri 12/21/07 07:48 AM
Well, relationships can cause a lot of stress and extra drama that I don't really need in my life. Obviously the extra affection is great but sometimes the relationship isn't worth all the extra effort hence my equation of course it's just my opinion.

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Fri 12/21/07 07:52 AM
It always amazed me to hear people say things like "you should be here at 6 weeks in a relationship" or "you should be doing ___________ by the 3rd date".

No two relationships are the same. Some move faster than others. There's no proof that you must do a relationship in a certain way for it to be successful. Different people, different tastes, different ideas.

A lot of relationships fail due to the two people involved trying too hard to make it a carbon copy of what they think all relationships are.

Go with the flow, I say. Engaged by the third date, or just holding hands? Doesn't matter a bit, besides, it's no one's business but yours.

awiserman's photo
Fri 12/21/07 07:56 AM

It always amazed me to hear people say things like "you should be here at 6 weeks in a relationship" or "you should be doing ___________ by the 3rd date".

No two relationships are the same. Some move faster than others. There's no proof that you must do a relationship in a certain way for it to be successful. Different people, different tastes, different ideas.

A lot of relationships fail due to the two people involved trying too hard to make it a carbon copy of what they think all relationships are.

Go with the flow, I say. Engaged by the third date, or just holding hands? Doesn't matter a bit, besides, it's no one's business but yours.
I like your answer, I think you hit it right on the head

Turtlepoet78's photo
Fri 12/21/07 07:57 AM

It always amazed me to hear people say things like "you should be here at 6 weeks in a relationship" or "you should be doing ___________ by the 3rd date".

No two relationships are the same. Some move faster than others. There's no proof that you must do a relationship in a certain way for it to be successful. Different people, different tastes, different ideas.

A lot of relationships fail due to the two people involved trying too hard to make it a carbon copy of what they think all relationships are.

Go with the flow, I say. Engaged by the third date, or just holding hands? Doesn't matter a bit, besides, it's no one's business but yours.


True to a point, but the question is how long does it take to know someone? Is anybody ready for marriage after only knowing eachother for 6 weeks? Personaly I don't think so, and for marriage anyway, ANY marriage that's going to work is going to still work if you wait a couple years, hence the reason to take it slow, to be sure beyond the shadow of doubt;^]

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Fri 12/21/07 07:58 AM
amen knox...to each his own:wink:

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Fri 12/21/07 07:59 AM
I don't think relationships should have a timeline like Knox said it's whatever happens. If it takes you 2 months to hold hands so be it.

geektothetenth's photo
Fri 12/21/07 02:58 PM

Speed + Mass = Gravity

Let's take our time & not crush eachother;^]laugh laugh laugh


Gravity is actually a force so it'd be
Mass X Acceleration = Force (F=ma)

Jtevans's photo
Fri 12/21/07 05:07 PM


Speed + Mass = Gravity

Let's take our time & not crush eachother;^]laugh laugh laugh


Gravity is actually a force so it'd be
Mass X Acceleration = Force (F=ma)




huh huh huh laugh laugh laugh

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