Many people think online dating is a simple tool like a screwdriver.
The problem with that is some people are not really looking to get screwed.



Online dating is more like a spicer clutch wrench.
Its a specific tool made to effectively do a specific job.

You can adjust a spicer clutch with a screwdriver but its a whole lotta work and takes a long time and most of the time it doesn't really work for the intended job.

However, if you use the correct tool correctly, you can perform the task rather simply.

Online dating is a specific tool.
Many people have trouble because they are trying to use that tool for something it is not designed to do.

Something to ponder...yer welcome.

I think I would have more open interest with women if I could honestly claim a screen name of EnormousMagnitude.

if there is a tools, so maybe toolbox also will be useful :))

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I would have thought online dating was more like nuts, with a few screws loose.

More like an empty tool box once used. It has a few crumbs, and a few bits of fluff in it, and could be useful with the right tools added, but the old crumbs and fluff aren't very enticing on their own.

A few?

The problem isn't just finding the right tool, you have to know what the job is to begin with. Using that screwdriver to mix a cake doesn't work very well!

Cellphone for online dating

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That's pretty close to my intent.
The fact is, you CAN mix cake with a screwdriver but like you said, it doesn't work very well.

The online dating tool is designed to bring people together in real life.
A tool designed to find and provide a means of connection only.

Its not a tool for finding or cultivating love.
Love is only found and cultivated in person.
Its not meant to be a constantly used tool.
Like any tool used too long it gets worn down, dull or blunt.
Its effectiveness and purpose expires when two people actually meet face to face.
When you find who you are looking for the tool is no longer needed.
You put it away and choose other more specialized tools in your toolbox.

Online dating is not designed or intended to be the Swiss army knife of relationship tools but many people think it is.
This is why so many people get frustrated and jaded.
They try to use a simple tool to accomplish complex tasks.

Didn't we have a tool half a million years ago, called a club.

Combined with the victim's (date's) long hair, a date could be arranged soon, and underway when she comes to in the cave.

Of course you can't do that these days, since caves are in short supply, but the concept could be modified for political correctness.

Modern tools include haircuts, clothes, cologne, entertainment, and copious lies, to lure rather than stun. Maybe pheromone sprays and certain music may help these days too.

Women don't need tools, but can use many things to advantage, flirtyness, nudity, dancing, or just grabbing and dragging a guy away, no club needed.
If an average woman told me I'm coming home with her, no point in fighting it.

As far as a tool for actually meeting, it depends on where in the world you are, and if the other person is near enough to visit or not, or even real.

Clubs are good. Grrrr

No club needed for me, I'll come with.
Especially if U got a heavy metal club to go to.
Head banging, then just banging.

Cheeky.
Keep safe in your cave.

I always knew,
being a tool, would have it's advantages.

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