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Goodness Cyrex. I told someone recently I fancied him. He said, "That is nice"
 . It never lead to anything. I wonder if he understood me!
You just have to take a chance. No need to deactivate if you get rejection. Rejection is part of life. We are not everyone's "opium". And we would help you recover your heart and give you the confidence you need to get back on your bike . 
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My advice is, be yourself. Either the crush goes both ways, or not. That's life 
I'm being myself, comrade Larsi, that's why I wrote this post. I could at least tell her that I love her, even without her knowing. I reckon, she might know it already. Some girls can read between the lines
I hope she did, and I believe she did. She's a smart lady 
That's good. I wish you all success needed. Tiocfaidh ar la 
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I can't, and won't tell you what to do. Though I have been there a few times, here.... and got "I like you, but" every time. It sucks but I eventually realized it's better than living a fantasy. Online fantasies have a way of interfering with real face to face life. It's a trap that that's much like being locked away in some dungeon. I may not be able to post here again, and may even deactivate my account if she rejects me. I'm not taking that risk for the sake of you guys so that you don't miss my precious presence. That's very sweet of you to spare us the agony of your not being here, haha. Just teasing, I do get that. I felt much the same way when I was Piscesmoon and spoke up about my deep seeded crush. I ended up deactivating and changing my username, kind of like a fresh start. Mostly what I've found since then is that they aren't so much rejecting me as a person, they are rejecting the long distance thing and all that entails. LDR's are tough and a huge risk to invest your time and heart in. Not many are up for that, especially when you haven't met face to face. Who was Mr. Right back then? My secret crush!  And apparently he wasn't Mr. Right, lol
According to your post he was Mr. Right but the distance wasn't I said since then, after I became Riverspirit. The one that I spent a year pining over was when I was Piscesmoon, it broke my heart when I came face to face with reality. None of them were actually Mr. Right, because Mr. Right wouldn't let something like distance stand in the way. He wouldn't tell me if I lived closer he'd be honored to go out with me. He'd fly to me and meet me face to face. So perhaps they were rejecting me as a person, but I prefer to think otherwise. 
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Heavy stuff
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Heavy stuff is right, especially when your crush lives at the other end of the world, an just flying over for a visit is not possible for all various reasons.
Like for me, limited annual leave, which I need to visit my parents twice a year, who are, as many here know, not in the best of health. Plus financially, I am working alright, but renting a place is damn expensive here, so is healthcare. Though I am pretty sure, I am not the worst to date ... Aye, heavy stuff alright, c'est la vie 
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That secret crush
The 2nd most popular stalker manifesto title. 1st being "How to get her to see me as more than the nice guy friend while she dates a-holes." if you have had the same experience, what did you do?
I sat around wallowing in self pity ultimately driven by a lack of understanding why I had to actually do anything and try and why I wasn't entitled to what I felt I wanted since I really felt I wanted it, proven by how much I felt, coming up with all kinds of rationalizations about why I couldn't try, and then used passive aggressive emotional, or humorous, or intellectual expression trying to manipulate a situation. Then I baked her some brownies, drew a heart on them in frosting, offered them to her in class and asked her to the 7th grade dance, got made fun for a while, then moved on. Really helped me grow the f up. |
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My advice is, be yourself. Either the crush goes both ways, or not. That's life
I'm being myself, comrade Larsi, that's why I wrote this post. I could at least tell her that I love her, even without her knowing. I reckon, she might know it already. Some girls can read between the lines
I hope she did, and I believe she did. She's a smart lady
It seems she didn't 
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I have no advice to offer.
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I have no advice to offer. Not even a crush to share? |
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That secret crush
The 2nd most popular stalker manifesto title. 1st being "How to get her to see me as more than the nice guy friend while she dates a-holes." I was about to choose (Visit my f*** Profile Again) title but I felt it was too direct and rude |
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Hi Cyrex, send her a private message. If she turns you down then it will just be between you and your crush. Nobody else need to know.. unless of course you start another thread saying "She is a beyotch" but that's up to you.
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I have no advice to offer. Not even a crush to share? That's why I have no advice to offer. 
Let's just say, if I have a crush, she lives in Too~Far~Away~Land. |
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Hi Cyrex, send her a private message. If she turns you down then it will just be between you and your crush. Nobody else need to know.. unless of course you start another thread saying "She is a beyotch" but that's up to you.
I don't do nothing in secret. My heart is an open book for her to read, and I sent her a message on public in Valentine's thread !! |
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Edited by
mzrosie
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Wed 02/12/20 03:48 PM
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Hi Cyrex, send her a private message. If she turns you down then it will just be between you and your crush. Nobody else need to know.. unless of course you start another thread saying "She is a beyotch" but that's up to you.
I don't do nothing in secret. My heart is an open book for her to read, and I sent her a message on public in Valentine's thread !! Perhaps your message is not clear!! There are a quite a few ladies here on the forums and as you just recently joined the forums, she most likely NOT know you got a crush on her or you even like her. So you say your heart is an open book for her to read, what if she doesn't read your posts? |
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Oh Cyrex aka 🦊, now we all know. She's back! You must be doing the happy dance
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She never left .. she was just super busy in her world
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Nice new pic.
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As another member says... follow your heart, but take your brain with you.
It's the best we can do m8 |
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Somebody grab my wader's chits gettin' deep up in this mug!
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you might needs stilts too rcb
Perhaps it is true what they say .. god works in mysterious ways ., be wary of aethiests and bearded men  
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